I have known this guy for over 3 years now. We have this on again off again thing. We see one another once and then I don't see him for months but only through e-mail. I've told him how mad he makes me and why he does this but he never answers me. He just suggest I see a someone to talk to about my youth BUT he is the problem why I get mad. I really cared about this person and so it makes it hard to make the goodbye cause when I am done with someone that is it. I know deep down what I need to do just want to hear some feedback.
2006-11-26 07:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess you need to talk to.....YOURSELF!
Ask yourself a few questions like:
Why do I want to be with someone who brings out my anger?
What makes me hold onto a failed relationship?
Where is my anger coming from and who is it really directed at?
Who else makes me feel so angry?
Do I want to keep this pattern going or am I ready for change?
Its really hard to change choices in men, and it takes a great deal of personal insight, so get to work!
2006-11-26 07:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you should just tal to him cause maybe you don't really know him that well, and cause he isn't answering you then maybe you should say I am sorry just to make him know that you feel bad about it. and just talk to him. if you still think that he is annoying then maybe you should just hangout with other people or just give him suggestions, cause most of the time when you think he is annoying other might think so as well. so give him some tips. and if he doesn't talk to you again then that's ok, and he isn't meant to be your friend. There are alot of better people in tis world that you can talk to.
2006-11-26 07:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by sally b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is hinding something or someone from you. I could be wrong? Be true to yourself. You deserve to be treated with repect. If you know what to do deep down then do it your mind, heart and soul are telling you to do so. Someone who has repect for you will come along when you aren't looking. It always seems to happen that way. Good luck kiddo.
2006-11-26 07:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see him anymore. Unless you want it to go on and on exactly as it is. I think he calls on you when he doesn't have another in his life. Something like this is only good if you want it this way too. And it doesn't seem like you do...if it's been like this all along, why do you get upset about it? You really do not need him in your life...let go.
2006-11-26 07:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget and move on. Dont waste your precious youth a day more
2006-11-26 07:04:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO PILATES OR YOGA! i USE TO HAVE ALOT OF ANGER TOWARDS OTHER PEOPLE. AND I THINK ME DOING YOGA RELAXED MY BODY. AND MADE ME MORE OF A MELLOW PERSON.
2006-11-26 07:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋