My Girlfriend jumped into a pre-marriage ring, shortly beofre we started dating. She has no clue what the details are. Clearly we can't have sex, but what about a shower, sharing the same bed, oral? If anyone has any answers by all means plz respond
2006-11-26 07:01:14 · 4 answers · asked by praetorg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um... there are no rules. Hopefully she decided to not have sex before marriage for an important reason, something inside of her, and that same thing should guide her other sexual decisions. People who jump into everything, including dry humping and oral sex, claiming to have maintained their virginity through some technicality, are annoying at best. It defies the point and demeans the importance of what you do share. The only way to truly lose your virginity is to never have kissed a man, and then at one time go all the way. Otherwise it's a slow process. Penetration is an important step but such shouldn't diminish the importance of other activities.
You guys should discuss exactly what you feel comfortable with and why. I'm sure you can find a level of intimacy that works for both of you. There's nothing wrong with enjoying sex, oral sex, a shower or sleeping in the same bed. Just make sure you're making decisions that are well thought out.
2006-11-26 07:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by solaralley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always thought that pre-marriage rings are just a sign that you wont try and do anything with her sexually, its more like a sign that she can trust you in that area until the marriage comes, However taking a shower with her and sharing the same bed wont hurt, me and my husband did that for 6 months than we got married but he had to show me that i could trust him in that area cause i didnt want to have sex with him until the wedding bells were ringing.
2006-11-26 07:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shower is awesome... making out in a hot top and rubbing one another is also very satisfying... try anul sex? or would she consider that sex as well?? umm sleeping in the same bed watching movies on sunday in ur pjs is absolutly adorable try eating fruit out of one anothers mouth... also very satisfying
2006-11-26 07:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that's fine. My friend does all that and she has a purity ring too.
2006-11-26 07:03:10 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋