the love of my life left me becaus ehe said we dont see eachother enough (even though we see eachother almost every day) i know he loves me back, but it seems like he was looking for an excuse to not be with me now. he said we could try again later, and i didnt know how to take it. it hurts so bad to not be with him now, and ill do ANYTHING to get him back. what should i do? any words of advice will be of great help to me.
2006-11-26 06:58:19 · 19 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it is true love it WILL come back it does every time but if it was never ment to be then he/she will never come back,if he dont.....then trust me there is better people out there. KEEP YOUR CHIN UP!!! ^_^
2006-11-26 07:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by rkk_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is jealous of u! He prob. thinks ur cheaten on him! And i bet u can do better than him!! Fact i know cause usually Guys r the stupid ones who think that u will just want him back later so he could just hook up wit some other chick, but i think u should just give up on him! Just let him go! I had a love in my life, and i let him go! Yes i regret it so much cause i am very young! And he was my age and i really liked him! But my friend liked him so I dumped him! But i regret it so much but what i'm trying to say is he will miss u and when he wants u back u should just say no! No matter how much u love him, cause he will do it again and u don'y wanna get hurt a 2nd time! OK
2006-11-26 07:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by pimp132 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Hannah, I jus heered theres a new man round about that lives down in the holler, you know next to uncle smiley? And I found out that he can milk 2 cows at once. I think you should go a visitin. But wear yur Sunday go to meetin clothes. With yur delicte beauty how could he re sist?
2016-03-29 09:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was a definitive answer to this question life would be so much easier. You have to live through the bad times to make it to the good times. Increase your chances of getting him back by getting on with your own life, don't let this knock your confidence.
2006-11-26 07:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by j4ksh1t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see him everyday than obviously that's not the reason. I suggest that you go to him and ask him whats the real reason is. keep in mind that he said you can try again later. maybe all he needs is space and he feels too attached now. if that's the case let him be by himself a few times and make him realize that he needs you.
2006-11-26 07:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the desperation evident in your question tells us everything we need to know about why he broke up with you... You come off as a clingy, whiny, needy drama queen, and that's a HUGE turn-off to most guys. Sure, he's lying to you about WHY you broke up, and it wasn't even a very convincing lie, but maybe he was just trying to spare your feelings. Exhibit some self-confidence and prove that you don't NEED to have a boyfriend, and that will cause guys to chase YOU.
2006-11-26 07:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by Stretchy McSlapNuts 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's looking for excuses, he's got a reason he doesn't want to say, and trust me, it's sometimes better not to know why, it can be devistating.
I'm sorry hon, but what you need to do it get over him, he's clearly the one with issues, and it sounds like he wants to try being with someone else and keeping you hanging like a 'safety net'.
Don't put up with that kind of rejection and use.
2006-11-26 07:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way to heal is through time. Give yourself time to cry and laugh and everything will get better. Why would you want to get back together with someone who obviously is not interested?
2006-11-26 07:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by vannajune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's told you what he wants and you should respect that.
You don't want to be a woman who tries to keep things going when it's over.
Don't beg....move on with your life. The real love of your life is still out there.
2006-11-26 07:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your going to need some chloriform, some rope, a big black bag and a membership with the witness protection program.Good luck.
2006-11-26 07:00:48 · answer #10 · answered by I am the Badger Princess. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋