Family & Relationships - 26 November 2006

Hello! We are a newly engaged couple. This is our first new year's together. I want it to be special. We both agreed to spend it together alone. My fiance doesn't want us to go to some club or ball. He says it's not our style and we won't be happy there. Do you have any ideas for me, please? We have a money gift that we can spend, so money shouldn't be a problem. Also, we don't live together and he lives in another town. He will come all the way to spend new year's eve and may be two days with me. Thank you!

2006-11-26 06:19:04 · 3 answers · asked by Princess of Egypt 5 in Singles & Dating

im in love with this girl in my class
she likes jokin wiv me n i like it to
but thts all im there for
im not there for talking only laughin
this makes me feel leftout
whenever i help her she hardly gives a thank you
she sometimes jus gives me dirtylook
whenever she goes on holiday she will hug everyone except me
i will get a handshake
there was one incident which made me really angry
i was chttin 2 her on MSN then i added one of her close m8s to the conversation
she said to her while i was there that she needed to tell her m8 someting in another conversation. she easily could
have just told her
this made me feel so angry
did she say that on purpose in front of me?
ive tried 2 have a break from her but i always come back
should i stop being in contact with for her for good?
what would you do?

2006-11-26 06:19:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to get in touch with an old friend that I haven't spoken to in two and a half years. We were pretty close friends at some point, but she said something so awful about me and I very quietly cut her off. She is really not a bad person and I understand that nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes. I want to put the past behind us. She recently had a baby and I want to congratulate her for that. I have her contact info but I feel a bit awkward. What do you think?

2006-11-26 06:18:51 · 3 answers · asked by Tina R 1 in Friends

why do humans need to get married to continue the species and be husbands or wives? can we too do without it?

2006-11-26 06:17:15 · 28 answers · asked by Yours Truly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have known this guy for 10 years, he's 25 i'm 23. i thought he really loved me and i thought that we were serious he even bought me a ring, but i gave it back to him when we got into an argument and he took it back to the store. we even signed a contract on a house this year, then the whole thing got cancelled becuase he said that i argue too much. we have a two year old daughter together and i try everythig to make him happy, but now he's with a girl that also have a child with him, but she's a two timer and she's demanding and controlling and i know i treat him better and he can trust me more he even knows this, but yet he's with her. he even denied the child she has because she slept with other men. so why is he with her now? plus he's acting mean to me like i did somethng bad or wrong to him! HELP!!! how do i get his attention or get him back. he doesn't answer my questions and he keeps me in suspence, wandering if he loves me, why, etc

2006-11-26 06:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was walking by the girl i love ( i told her i love her )
and she was with her boyfriend
and she looked at me for a second, then she looks down / to the right (away)
we're good friends
we talk quite a bit online, but not as much in person..
why did she look away ?

2006-11-26 06:16:00 · 14 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

My stepdad just told my 7 year old little brother he couldn't get the Nintendo Wii or something for Christmas, so he's furious, and put the powder SEA MONKEY FOOD in stepdad's drink. I read the label and it says it's very harmful to humans! My stepdad is stumbling around and I'm really scared, I feel like I'm responsible!!! What do I do?? My little brother doesn't know I know what he did, but I saw him!

2006-11-26 06:15:51 · 10 answers · asked by Mental Patient 29 3 in Family

i like this guy and i thought he liked me back and i was going to ask him out but then i found out he liked one of my best friends. she was going out with this guy but then they broke up and then this other guy i kinda like was gonna ask her out and my friend/crush was sad. i know he kinda likes me but i don't know if i should ask him out or move on. some days he's like i'm over katie(my friend) and some days he's like i love katie and i really don' t know what i should do. Just ask him out or move on?

2006-11-26 06:15:45 · 1 answers · asked by Cole 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 and I've developed quite a crush on a 16 year old girl. I realize that doing anything about this crush is not exactly proper, because of the nature of our age difference.
Truth is though, she is just so adorable, I can't stop thinking about her, and I find myself flirting/wanting to flirt with her. Is this okay as long as I don't take it any further, or should I "cease and desist" in the interests of propriety?

2006-11-26 06:14:58 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 06:13:59 · 16 answers · asked by jovene_cunningham2000 2 in Singles & Dating

when your fiance of under 6 months tells you he regrets asking you to marry him? (We have been going through a rough time for the past month, but I didn't think it was that bad.)

2006-11-26 06:13:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want a partner...but cant be bothered finding one...what to do????

2006-11-26 06:12:55 · 21 answers · asked by trixiecat 2 in Singles & Dating

thanks for the answers...
Ok, she's 19 while i'm 27...
Do u guys think its a good match? As in age...

2006-11-26 06:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by Preston 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i attract my husband, i bath regularly,use good perfum,dress well but still donot attract him,he goes after other women.

2006-11-26 06:11:02 · 26 answers · asked by Esther K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to know from women, my ex girlfriend told me i was small after 3 yr relationship and it really hurt me. my other ex told me the same. and we were together 3 yrs also. and a girl i met 4 weeks ago said i was small. is this really small for women? im getting depressed cuz i feel it will prevent me from a healthy relationship. do women really like bigger?

2006-11-26 06:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by JAY P 1 in Singles & Dating

I was having fun with his questions, why do they keep getting deleted??? I have seen allot worse things on here then that.... I don't really feel thats fair considering the fact that we all ask sexual questions on here... why do his keep getting deleted...

2006-11-26 06:10:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i,m a texas rancher, i hve been working in ranches most of my life, i have had a few gals here and there but nothing permanent mostly cowgals.but now i m reaching 40 years and i seriously need to get away form the cows,bulls and horses and settle down. i do have several bad habits that hve stuck to me from ranching for so long, like chewing tobbaco, not wearing underpants under my jeans,eating baked beans and farting, etc. so have i left it to late to find a specialy lady in my life or will i never change my habits and remain dateless for the rest of my life? pls someone give me some encourageing adivice.

2006-11-26 06:10:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a son who's going to be 3 years old on December 21st. With all of the excitement of Christmas going on in my home, how can I make his birthday truly special without confusing him? And what's the best way to handle it as he gets older?

2006-11-26 06:10:08 · 5 answers · asked by Leah 1 in Family

ok theres guy at school who is really sweet and always flirts with me, he has told me hat he likes me... but he has a gf...how can i win him over?

2006-11-26 06:09:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Blessings
By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

You were born with a blessing.
And others see it in, you too.

Some are willing to die for it,
But it seems, it never bothers you.

Has your blessing put you above us?
Or yourself, who thinks you look the best.

Your blessings has opened doors for you,
While others, have to suffer like the rest.

It’s not your fault, you were blessed,
With the beauty, that others see.

It’s the way, that you conduct yourself,
That makes others glad, their blessed free.

But, there will come a day
When your blessings no longer work,

And you will see, what others truly thought of you,
When your blessings, made you act like a jerk.

So remember, there’s more to life than looks,
It’s what’s behind the looks which really make a friend.

So treat your friends with love and kindness.
And they will help you, to the very end.

2006-11-26 06:08:42 · 2 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Friends

Why did they always Bully me and make fun of me,when i always go to the corridor they always laugh at me,well i don't do anythin to them i just keep Quiet all the time but they always mind me? what do you think do they hate me?

2006-11-26 06:08:40 · 8 answers · asked by DaRkAngeL XIII 3 in Friends

I feel like i love the person i am engaged too but not in the way i should is it possible that will fall into place after we get married in a day and half.?Its a love/ hate relationship because he drives me crazy because he is so anal and uptight and i am the polar opposite but he does not now it and i try to please him anyway. Been together 3 years .

2006-11-26 06:08:36 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has an illegimate child while still bounded by the marriage. Which is the most appropriate legal action to take at this point of time.

2006-11-26 06:08:22 · 3 answers · asked by snow_0888 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a 61/2 year relationship. He lost his job 2 yrs ago, moved in with me 1yr ago. Only works PT & Freelance. Not looking for any other work outside his field. Bills are getting behind, I carry 95% of the load. I care for him but I have determined that I do not want to be his wife. His family is extremely dysfunctional and his options of where else to live are at "0". I'm tired, he seems content with his situation until I inquire. He whines excuses when I express how he needs a FT job. I know, having lost home & job (13yrs) taken away has to be very devastating, but how long can one "man" flop around in sorrow? I have truly been on his side for a long time but, I've reached a point of no more empathy. No, it isn't just a cash/bill issue. He reminds me of a teenager. Does nothing productive all day then right before I get home, half wash the dishes or start something else, as if he has been productive all day. Hygeine habits are bad too. Who would want sex with this stress

2006-11-26 06:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by BRENDA T 1 in Singles & Dating

he broke up with me bc we did not see eachother all the time, but we still saw eachother often. i love him soo much and i dont know what to tell him to get him to just be patient, bc i have a alot of things going on right now, but i cant bear to be with out him. please send me your wards of advice.

2006-11-26 06:07:41 · 3 answers · asked by Chelsea 2 in Singles & Dating

It really hurts. I cry when I'm alone; if I did it around her, she would just make some hurtful comment. We use to have such a close bond. I feel like she would be happier if I were just gone.I miss my child.

2006-11-26 06:07:20 · 31 answers · asked by Bev M 2 in Family

I think the question is pretty self explanitory.

2006-11-26 06:06:48 · 2 answers · asked by fyreblu_x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Blessings
By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

You were born with a blessing.
And others see it in, you too.

Some are willing to die for it,
But it seems, it never bothers you.

Has your blessing put you above us?
Or yourself, who thinks you look the best.

Your blessings has opened doors for you,
While others, have to suffer like the rest.

It’s not your fault, you were blessed,
With the beauty, that others see.

It’s the way, that you conduct yourself,
That makes others glad, their blessed free.

But, there will come a day
When your blessings no longer work,

And you will see, what others truly thought of you,
When your blessings, made you act like a jerk.

So remember, there’s more to life than looks,
It’s what’s behind the looks which really make a friend.

So treat your friends with love and kindness.
And they will help you, to the very end.

2006-11-26 06:06:40 · 3 answers · asked by Cobra 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 06:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by $ Ghetto Lady $ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-26 06:06:39 · 16 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating