How do i make myself attractive to my husband?

Question

How do i attract my husband, i bath regularly,use good perfum,dress well but still donot attract him,he goes after other women.

Answer 1

Honey, i think he's in for other woman which he already have in he's mind...

Yes, you can try to bath clean, dress nice, smell good, but if he's not focusing on your anymore..

My thought was, "in the begining" what cause him to turn away from you earlier??? did you do something to make him lost interest in you??? Start thinking about it, where went wrong??
Maybe, think of a way to patch back, otherwise the more you try your best, the more it get worse and, it's affecting your morale...

I'm just curious, why till now then only you're trying to attract him??

Honey, i'm sorry about how/what happened, but be patients k, if it's yours; it's yours... just do your normal stuff, be strong, behave like normal, pretend like nothing ever happen. Psycologically, it will weaken he's mind and he'll come back to you. The medison is "time"...

When he goes out, you also try to dress nicely and also pretend to go out as well.. he may also get "excited, interested or JEALOUS" of where/who you're going out with....

Be patients k, i have trust in you and, i will pray for you and may God always be with you...

Good Luck Honey...

Answer 2

Did you know about this article?

When a Mate is Unfaithful :
- Infidelity--Its Tragic Consequences
- Is Reconciliation Possible?
- The Option of Divorce
- Meaningful Support
- Why Some Stay Together
> Who Is Responsible?
- Children Do Not Deserve Divorce
- Does God Hate All Divorce?
http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/1999/4/22/article_01.htm

Some people have a negative response to perfumes, at least synthetics. My family does. But I doubt that's the root of the problem as you describe yours. Do you really think you're the problem?

Wholesome Communication--A Key to a Good Marriage
- What Wholesome Communication Involves
- Obstacles to Wholesome Communication
- How to Promote Wholesome Communication
http://www.watchtower.org/library/w/1999/7/15a/article_01.htm

You do realize that there's a lot more to marriage than bedroom actvities ...

*These URLs may change soon. After that, Advanced Search at http://watchtower.org/search/search_e.htm will find the new ones.

Answer 3

Darling, as naughty as it may sound, the most logical way to get him attracted to you is by looking attractive for the other men. This way, he's bound to get jealous and want you more and more. Sure, there might be an argument or two, but I'm sure, you could handle that, right? Keep looking well groomed, eat well, exercise, exfoliate once a week, remove facial and visible body hair, slather on the moisturiser every night, wear sunblock during the day and rest well. Don't worry your pretty little head about your straying husband too much, 'cos if it's not him, you can always have another! Just take care of yourself, act normal with him (not whiny and begging him to look at you once before he walks out that door!), and wear light makeup more often and don well-cut clothes EVERYTIME. Go out with him then, and when other men start looking at you twice and when you smile back at them and defend yourself from your husband by saying that you only smiled for humanity's sake, you're soon going to have him eating out of your hand.

Answer 4

Men need to be seduced sometimes. Give him little hints about what he could expect when he comes home that night. Let him know that he turns you on and that you really want him. Leave him notes about how awesome he was last night or how you are looking forward to getting some more of him tonight or soon. Maybe write out a short little fantasy you have about him that can be easily fullfilled, like sex in the kitchen or a certain position, and then stick it in his pocket before he leaves for work.

We all need excitement, some can convince themselves that they don't need it, but some know they need it and will go get it.

Answer 5

let me see if we might find an answer for you here.
when you were dating, I assume you had long hair, nicely applied make up,may be snugg fitting clothes, great smelling hair and so on.If what you ware does not seem to change him, how about your body weight and personality?, do you constantly complain about things that you used to leave alone at one time?

If your man is now a woman chasser, there is some thing about you, he no longer cares for.
You have to stay composed, cool headed, and think this probblem through
Talk with your friends about it.
And A long shot may work,..get an opinion of some of the men folk, that wanted you at one time, or still do. see what their imput is

Answer 6

if he going after other women ..maybe you should leave him.

but to get him attracted to you ..well you could surprize him with a fantasy type thing when he is comming home
ex: move the furnature around and make a picnic with your body in the middleof the livingroom ..wear something very sexy and maybe put some flowers in your hair
.have candle lit and bottle of champain ,have some oils for massages

Answer 7

He is your husband, is there a pattern to the women he goes after look at that, but really if he is out shopping you may have to realize he has made his mind up

Answer 8

waste the time with that kind of that husband, some husbands do exactly the same way, they enjoy betraying, love the other women's bodies to fantasy in sex - that kind of husband will be punished by God - keep make yourself attractive for YOURSELF and lots of people will love you - and your husband will kneel down in front of you when he recognise you don't care about him any more

Answer 9

show confades with out being threating .it is you that he has a problum with not the cloths ,bathing, perfumes .or he is a childish man that well never treat you as you need and want .if you no he is going after other woman [ f ] him go get you a man that wants to go after you

Answer 10

You do this for your self and you will sense extra useful. connect a gymnasium and take the classes. I make it easier to recognize, whilst my ex. filed for divorce, i desperate to shield something that stricken me, so as that i did not could desire to fret approximately "that" too. i desperate to bypass to the gymnasium 6 days each week, and that i did. I have been given my weight right down to 118. I felt super and enjoyed how I regarded. Then i began out to purchase new clothing. as quickly as I liked how I regarded, it grew to become into easy to get decrease back into the relationship interest (despite if i desired to or not). without notice everyone grew to become into asking me out. i did not date till i grew to become into divorced, yet had 4 dates immediately! It grew to become right into a extensive self belief booster! that's what you elect. additionally, that's particularly substantial! I ate in basic terms wholesome meals. If it wasn't wholesome, i did not consume it, yet I enable myself consume as quite some it as i wanted. My physique regarded remarkable in 8 wks! i did not have plenty to lose, however the foodstuff grew to become into the main necessary. via that element, I wore attractive clothing for all time! attempt it?