when your fiance of under 6 months tells you he regrets asking you to marry him? (We have been going through a rough time for the past month, but I didn't think it was that bad.)
2006-11-26 06:13:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also, he says he still wants to marry me, but I need to respect him more.
2006-11-26 06:18:57 · update #1
he and i have been together for almost 2 and a half years. we got engaged on our two year anniversay. it has been 6 months since we got engaged. there is no rushing into this.
2006-11-26 06:35:32 · update #2
Apparently he did think it was that bad. In any event, he has cold feet and you should talk to him about resolving whatever the problem is. You cannot go into a marriage with any doubts or regrets. That would be the sure recipe for divorce.
2006-11-26 06:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under 6 months?? You both haven't even had the opportunity to truly get to know one another. Way too soon to even be discussing marriage. Maybe your boyfriend realizes he may have asked you to marry him prematurely. It doesn't mean that he may not care about you, but you two seem to be rushing into this. SLOW DOWN!
2006-11-26 06:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by tranquil1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do, but walk gracefully away. Maybe in time, he'll feel differently, but for now, you need to let him go.
2006-11-26 06:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider it a good thing he let you know right away before you got married
2006-11-26 06:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by 456tbj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank him for being honest and trusting you enough to share this difficult truth and see where that goes.
Then, just listen.
2006-11-26 06:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there quick.
2006-11-26 15:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he thinks that then end it.
it wont be a good marrage if hes like that.
2006-11-26 06:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by musicalxcrash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET RID OF HIM AND MOVE ON
2006-11-26 06:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by cherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋