I am pregnant with my b/f's kid. When I told him he said he would be there for me through out it all. Would you guys have ditched or stayed?? Does it mean we may actually have a real relationship?? Should I be glad he wants to help??
We are 19. Would he have left me if he didn't care??
He says he has something for me tonight. My friend says that his friend says he's gonna propose. Should I say yes??
2006-11-26 06:50:13 · 11 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been together for 4 years today.
2006-11-26 06:51:21 · update #1
We have talked about getting married eventually but I thought that was far away. Is 19 too young to get married?? I do love him.
2006-11-26 06:57:14 · update #2
His friend said he was thinking of proposing b4 but I wasn't ready then so I told him b4 he asked. He said we could give it some time. It has been a few months.
2006-11-26 06:58:51 · update #3
My friend just asked him and he said yes, he's gonna, but not to tell me.
2006-11-26 06:59:56 · update #4
he dont luv u, he just cares about the baby. but ya'll gonna work it out .......watch ..................say yes
2006-11-26 06:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Nana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years is long enough to know about someone. if you have been together this long, i would say he cares. if he does propose that is great. but make sure he is proposing because he loves you and wants to be with you forever and will stay faithful to you. don't say yes for the sake of the kid. that is the wrong reason and could ruin all 3 of your lives.
2006-11-26 14:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by asslpman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him then you should say yes. This would also be in the best interest of your baby. But that shouldn't be the only reason; make sure you want to marry him and you will be happy with him
2006-11-26 14:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by librakat86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys would have ditched. You don't have a real relationship(yet), that will take time. You should be glad he wants to help, of course. He, at least in general, cares...at least a bit...and at least for right now.
Sure, say yes.....better for the kid at least to have a family.
2006-11-26 14:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he cares four years together sounds like a real relationship to me. Perhaps he is going to propose but if its your four year anniversary it may be a nice present. But if its a proposal only get married if you love each other.
2006-11-26 14:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure he cares if youve been togather for 4 years prior to getting pregnant only advice i can give you is this if it turns out that he does propose maked sure its for the right reasons that being that he truely loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you not just because your pregnant. trust me this simly piece of advice may say you from major problems down the road. p.s. before saying yes make sure its what you want as well
2006-11-26 14:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by monieluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he might really like u because some guys might just leave u but he say'd so if he does propose say yes if u really love him. also think about the baby and ur heart!
2006-11-26 14:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. he def cares!!
2. if he didn't care, he would have left you, so it means he cares
3. say yes to him!! 4 years~thats great!
4. congratss!! =]
2006-11-26 14:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont YOU know if you want to marry him? You're both children, having a child, why not?
2006-11-26 14:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he loves YOU, and he dont just want you becasue of the baby.
2006-11-26 14:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by as 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋