I am pregnant with my b/f's kid. When I told him he said he would be there for me through out it all. Would you guys have ditched or stayed?? Does it mean we may actually have a real relationship?? Should I be glad he wants to help??
We are 19. Would he have left me if he didn't care??
He says he has something for me tonight. My friend says that his friend says he's gonna propose. Should I say yes??
we have been together for 4 years today.
We have talked about getting married eventually but I thought that was far away. Is 19 too young to get married?? I do love him.
His friend said he was thinking of proposing b4 but I wasn't ready then so I told him b4 he asked. He said we could give it some time. It has been a few months.
My friend just asked him and he said yes, he's gonna, but not to tell me.
He says he loves me and this should bring us closer not break us up. Is he right??
I want to marry him but should I tell my parents about the marriage or baby first?? We are in love.
2006-11-26 07:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have gotten married before you got pregnant..
Now get married before you have the baby...
2006-11-26 07:23:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think its wonderful that he is actually staying around, Most guys wont if there girl gets pregnant they normally think that the girl did this on purpose so they leave, if he purposes to you definatly say yes you two are going to have a kid together and i think that it would be nice after all you two have been together for 4 years now. 19 is not to young to get married i got married when i was 19 and now i am 20 and going on my first kid. If you love him than yes you should marry him. Good Luck And after he purposes to you than take him over to your parents house and tell your parents about the purposal let them know that you two have an annoucement and than tell them that you two are going to get married and than tell them you are pregnant.
2006-11-26 15:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE go see a counselor, your church 1st, etc. I got married at 18 for the same reasons. WAIT!!!! It will not bring you 2 closer together but all the stress of family life and marriage just might hurt at a young age. Been there!
2006-11-26 15:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem to have a realistic handle on your or his feelings. After four years it should have been no surprise that he would stand by you if you got pregnant.If you love him and he loves you and you have a child on the way;what's to stop you? You will need his support during this pregnancy. Get married. God bless you.
2006-11-26 15:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by wonder woman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and are about to have his kid, then yes you should marry him. It would be a good idea to tell you parents about it also. I wouldn't tell your parents about the baby until afterwards.
2006-11-26 15:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by xfootballstarx87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋