went on a date with a guy & slept with him. All my idea. Do men feel this wretched after a one night stand? Why the difference between the sexes?....sigh, I know its foolish
2006-11-26 07:08:01 · 24 answers · asked by Christina S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
mr-slacke, yes I did like him & hoped to see him again. But he left without a word, obviously. I've known him as a friend for a while. I just feel so sad....but thanks for your answer, it helped a lot
2006-11-26 08:27:51 · update #1
Bored at work, thank goodness I've never come across you! Its not a matter of 'letting someone get it' Both partners are hopefully equal when it comes to sex, men that try to 'get it' as you put it are pretty nauseating. This wasn't the case with me. And I wasn't stupid enough not to use protection. Thanks for nothing
2006-11-26 09:02:56 · update #2
When I wa single, I always felt gross after a one-time fling, even if I already knew and liked the girl. Do you plan to continue dating him or was that it? Don't lose too much sleep over it; a couple of hot showers and some quality time with friends or a real romantic attraction will wash it away-unless you did not use protection...........but that's a different topic.
2006-11-26 07:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have had a one night stand or five in my life time.... I lost total respect for the women who let me get it on the first date or after the club... Needless to say I never called them back and I would be scared for weeks until the (std) blood test would come back negative. Thank God I never caught anything... It's not worth it to sleep around.
To answer your question, Yes we feel "wretched" and we don't think very highly of the women who participated with us.
2006-11-26 08:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All sexes react in a similar way, particularly if the expectation turns to be far worse than your previous partner. Which leaves me to say that sex is most enjoyable if both partners are sober be it a one night stand or not.
2006-11-26 07:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by marizani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men only want one night stands.
Others feel bad about it and think about the one he was with the night before.
you have a guilt complex which is a good thing.
it means you know you did wrong and it bothers you.
2006-11-26 07:12:00 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt bad before, especially when I wake up the next morning and don't feel any chemistry. Any guy that tells you otherwise if probably lying. Women don't have the corner on a conscience.
2006-11-26 07:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jack P 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad, there is no difference between men and women doing this. beer goggles syndrome effects everyone and yes men feel highly embarresed the next day.
Just forget it lol
2006-11-26 07:54:03 · answer #6 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cant speak for all men; there were rare time that I woke up in the morning in her home saying to myself "what am i doing here. Otehr times, I just ended up staying.
2006-11-26 07:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the guy. I havn't had a one night stand for a while (on purpose) but if I did I would receive the high fives and then feel like a shallow piece of crap-.
2006-11-26 07:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by MeaCulpa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey dont stress i had my beer goggles on last nite aswell .. he was sooooo stunning on the dance floor ..must of bn the lighting cos he wasnt that stunning this morning lol
2006-11-26 07:12:09 · answer #9 · answered by charlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've done the same so u are not alone, just give it time and u will feel better
2006-11-26 10:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋