my father in law still talks to and visits my huband(been married 9 yrs) ex g-frd. He thinks she a damn angel...i do everyhthing for him, i make sure he eats dinner and i go shopping for him.include him in all family outings...alot...i do it cause i want i but as soon as se comes into town or calls him for money he drpos evrything or her...should i tell him how i feel or just drop it and try to ignore it?
2006-11-26 07:42:54 · 2 answers · asked by truthgrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Apparently they became friends during the former relationship and he enjoys her company. I think if it's really important to you and your relationship with him you should mention it and see what he says. At this point he must not think it bothers you. You sound like you have a good, secure relationship so I don't think you should let it interfere with the relationship you have with him.
2006-11-26 08:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex broke up with the girl. His father did not. Ignore the situation. In the long run it is better to tolerate a bit of s**t from relative, rather that have a confrontation. It makes the Holidays easier.
Another KEY point is that your husband is not seeing her so there is really no nothing to worry yourself about.
2006-11-26 07:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by reddemonwi55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋