I really really like this guy, but i am soooooooooooo shy whenever i am around him. He used to like me too, but i don't know if he does any more. I am always thinking about him and i don't know what to do. I could never tell him, or anybody else. What should i do????
2006-11-26 08:24:19 · 26 answers · asked by Mals 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well u should like eather call him and talk ot hangout with him alone and tell him that you liked him for awhile and that your not sure if he likes you so you would like to kno if you should try to move on or if you can have a chance with him.
2006-11-26 08:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Whbrunette8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be shy, get up enough courage to call the guy and just talk to him about anything then just let the conversation take care of itself, i am sure the conversation will lead to a (why did you call) then just tell the guy, if you know his email address, email the guy, but you have to get some kind of conversation going because if you don't, he might be thinking the same thing about you as for liking you and not being able to tell you, if something isn't done one or both of you will probably miss out on getting together it could lead to a great relationship but, you will never know until you try., ask yourself this, whats the worst that can happen. GO FOR IT.
2006-11-26 16:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by usay01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up and ask him out. The worse thing he can do is politely say no. If he laughs or does anything impolite, I doubt you would have been headed in the right direction in the first place. I've been married for close to 30 years now, and there are literly dozens of females that could have been my life partner. As long as both people are willing to compromise, then ltr's happen. Almost every divorce I've seen can be based on one persons selfishness, or both peoples.
2006-11-26 16:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by joe blow u still dont know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let him know. There really is no way around it. Unless of course you are really really shy around him; So shy that you seem to have a completely different personality then when you are around other people. If that is the case, he might already know it. You should just let it out into the open.
2006-11-26 16:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mister D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't see your question before. It sounds like you're both a little shy. Why don't you invite him to a group date with a bunch of friends so the pressure's off the both of you? Just pay attention to him, get to know him as a person, and let things happen naturally. Try to relax and let him see the wonderful girl you are.
2006-11-26 16:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Joyce H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to do something or forget about him. He'll never know you like him unless you do or say something to let him know. Just strike up a conversation with him about and see how it goes. Be yourself and be friendly. It's the only way to see what will happen. Good luck and remember...he's just a guy so don't let your shyness stop you.
2006-11-26 16:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i think u should let him know how u feel. u might be a little shy around him because u dont want to be rejected and that is a natural feeling but u dont want to go through life being afraid to say how u feel. so u never know he might be crazy about u to. so take a deep breath and go for it girlfriend. GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-26 16:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by srwilliams35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well nothing is ever going to happen unless you tell him. If he says he isn't interested anymore, than its that much sooner you can move on.
And stop freaking out about it...its really not that big of a deal.
2006-11-26 16:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's shyness I am like that too, so the best way to get it over with it's to ask him yourself don't let no one else do it for you cause they may say something different then you are going to regret.
2006-11-26 16:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by juanatjtorres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question to you is....how do you plan to tell him that you DO like him. shyness is ok, but you have to stand up sometimes and take a stand with what you feel. you cannot always look down at the ground and hope that someone will come out of the clouds and pick you up
2006-11-26 16:28:25 · answer #10 · answered by brianju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋