I started seeing this guy a few months ago.... after hanging out for a couple of weeks he freeked out and broke up with me because he thought I wanted to get serious.....I explained to him that I didn't want to get serious...I don't really have time for that right now... I just thought it was nice to have someone to spend time with occationaly and if I got laid to boot, so much the better. so we started hanging out again but now he's acting weird...like he wants to be serious.... he get all poutty if I don't snuggle with him, and he always tells me that he just want's to spend time with me.... I'm just trying to get some and he wants to cuddle!!??? what the hell?? I wouldn't mind being serios with him, but why tell me you don't want to and then act like a girl!! any ideas?
2006-11-26 08:22:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let me just add that I DIDN'T grovel... he freeked out and I just explained...I don't need to beg a man to be with me.
2006-11-26 08:32:55 · update #1
Because when you told him you didnt want to be serious then everything changed. Yes it sure did.....Now he knows that he might have competition so hes all up on you now....or maybe he had a change of heart who knows, why dont you ask him? It is the womans job to be complicated not the guy....you go girl
2006-11-26 08:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can never go back. Period.
Things were great until he broke it off. Then after you groveled with him, he took you back. Now things are different. You're sending confusing messages. At first, you didn't want to be serious with him, because you didn't have the time. Now, you wouldn't mind being serious with him. You need to do some soul searching for yourself and figure out exactly what it is you want out of this relationship, THEN press on forward.
2006-11-26 08:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like it's time to move on ,,,, If you are just looking for a casual relationship with benefits now and then ,,,, then there are plenty of fish in the pond ,,,, You don't need and it doesn't sound like you want any crap along with it ,,,, go fishing ,,,, Just be wary of guys answering you question and inviting you to their web site ,,,, Never look for any relationship on the computer ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2006-11-26 09:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be in love to cuddle. Don't you cuddle when you're getting some? Stop analyzing this, especially if you aren't trying to get serious with him anyway. Just spend time with him, get laid, whatever and wait for him to actually say something.
2006-11-26 08:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to stop acting so queer. And theres nothing wrong with getting serious with a guy if you like him.
2006-11-26 08:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Via 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should go with the flow with him and let him make the first move
2006-11-26 08:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he realized that he really like you. enjoy it instead of making it complicated !!! seriously,you are blessed of having someone !! enjoy !
2006-11-26 08:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by confuse06 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um maybe hes cheating on you or hes thinking to break up with you
2006-11-26 08:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by CHEER[: 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋