boyfriend they have been together for like 3 years and and it is not getting any better they fight all the time they fight so much she is just completly used to it now like she expects it. What is she thinking she says that she is still with him because she thinks it's just easier to stay What can i do or say to get her to realise that she could make a different choice and be happier i mean she probably already knows it but what could motivate her more to make a change
2006-11-26 08:24:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she wanted to break up she'd have done so. How long have you known her? If you want you can try tell her your feelings, but if she dumps him and comes to you and at some point ends up telling someone else that her relationship with you isn't leading anywhere and that you're arguing all the time but she just is used to you and thinks it's easier to stay, don't say you didn't expect it from her!
2006-11-26 08:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by speedy eleni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does not want to move on then she won't, she must love him a great deal and see the arguing as part of the relationship. Try introducing her to other men.
2006-11-26 09:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you tell her in the end it is really up to her to decide what she wants, she has to make that desicion, and if she doesn't there really isn't anything you can do to change that, sometimes you have to put your feelings aside and puy yourself in her place, it's no so easy for her, maybe it'll pass with tyme.
2006-11-26 08:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by naenae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say: "you only have one life, and is this how you want to spend it?"
2006-11-26 08:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋