Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

2006-11-25 05:53:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok....my girlfriends best friend and me used to be really good friends, but now we are'nt getting along because she thinks i'm trying to steal her friend(my gf) away...which i'm not.

My girlfriend just put us on a break so she could try to figure out what can be done, and hopefully to stop the fighting between me and her best friend, because it puts allot of stress on her.

She says she still loves me, and i know there is'nt another guy involved....do you think she actually intends to get back together or should i cut my losses and try to stop caring....i still love her

2006-11-25 05:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by surfunboi 1 in Singles & Dating

i have friends...i make friends not so hard....
but i have changed skool and uh..in my old skool i had maaaaaany friends and they love me sooo much but i dunno why they love to make fun of me and desrespect me...call me names and then when i get upset they say sry like 999999 times
so in my new skool im living with that fear to have friends who desrespect me they started with the name thing cauz they knew abt my history (and they didnt know tthat i was loved there)
how to get ppl in my new skool to respect me ?
i have been there for like only 4 months so do u think i can prove to them that the idea they took abr me is wrong ?
how can i make them respect me and love me ?
and dnt tell me to beat ppl up cauz i tried that and it didnt work
cauz everybody wants to watch some fights in the skool...

2006-11-25 05:53:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am a 22 year old shy single naughty boy. i have never had a g/f . but i have been trying realy hard to break out of my sheel to get a g/f?i been to clubs,joined groups, even go to the gym to improve my chance of getting a gal.but i am hopeless and given up all hope of getting one. well recently i have been trying desperate things to get attention from gals,like hanging out my brilliant white c.k underpants on my washing line to dry so galsin the neighbour hood notices,i have been dropping things in front of gals like paperwork in the hope they pick it up and start talking to me.even bumping into gals in clubs after pretending to be drunk, but to no avail.then after watching a movie,i saw summit that inspired me, it was about how a bussiness man wines and dines and talks big bucks on his cell phone to impress the gals. so last week i decided to copy him, i went on bus and trian rides talking to myself on my mobile pretending im a successful business man and talking big to impress.

2006-11-25 05:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by the_reporter 2 in Singles & Dating

I met someone after a very bad breakup with my husband of 25 years, the new person is in the same situation as he is divorcing (end ) of 25 years also.We had been connected and gone out for the past month and sometimes it seems like he has excuses when we set up times to go out more than once a week. We talk everyday 2-3 x a day but go out once a week,I want more but he seems to get close and then backs away. Ive been out of my situation for over a year- hes been out of his for 9 months. Hes a little older than me,and i do like him but my patience is thin. I had a hard time opening up to anyone and i did with him, but maybe im making too much of this? I just want someone who wants to be with me and do a lot of things together and see often, ect. He says ask him anything and he will answer hes just very busy (owns his own company) and that i need to be a little flexible. How do i keep from taking everything to heart or am i right in how im feeling?

2006-11-25 05:51:45 · 13 answers · asked by still hoping for love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex wants to see our daughter but I don't want him to have any thing to do with her.He can't even afford to take care of himself and he's a drug user.I don't want any support payments or anything I just want him out of our lives.What can I do?

2006-11-25 05:50:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 05:49:49 · 14 answers · asked by Meonater 1 in Friends

Why would this man suddenly go 'dark' after encouraging me to keep the relationship going, just a couple of weeks ago, when i tried to finish it. He, also, initiated discussion about coming to visit me whilst i'm out of town for a month, saying he would check out train times. However, have not heard a word since, for nearly two weeks now. He has also ignore a short text asking if he is ok sent a couple of days ago? It's driving me mad! The last conversation we had was really good and he seemed very keen to visit. This has never happened to me before and I think really odd. He is around 8 younger than me and so i had initial doubts, but we get on very well whenever we meet up, hence why he said we should continue it. Just feel really confused...and upset i guess because so easy to send short text response saying busy or something....and assume he has just been distracted and doesn't care about my feelings.

2006-11-25 05:49:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone says they really love you and they are married, how long do you wait? How do you know if someone is just using you or just having his cake and eating it too? There always seems to be another excuse, another holiday, another something that keeps us apart.

2006-11-25 05:49:27 · 5 answers · asked by Mommo O 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there any reason? They give only one word answer.

2006-11-25 05:48:39 · 5 answers · asked by chinnivanaja 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant read ur mind so ill just ask!!
What do guys look for in a girl?
What do they really want in a relationship?

2006-11-25 05:47:58 · 15 answers · asked by Nelly 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i had a crush on this really cute boy named dennis he is cuban and im puertorican he would talk to me sumtimes then he really started talking 2 me but he would b like (conyo q tetas) damn wat boobz and he would only come and give me alot of attention when i would were a skirt of sumthing showin sum skin other than that he would just stare so a couple of days he would offer me a ride home him and his friend i had 2 keep turning them down cuz my parents would kill me... everyday they would ask 4 hugs and dey would grab my azz or bite my shirt so i just kept hangin with them becuz they were fine one day the hallway waz empty so he took my hand and put it down his pants and i pulled it out fast (swear 2 god) he told me hey i ust wanted u 2 feel wat us cubans have (btw he has a girl but he told me shez not my girl were just going out) so he and his friend kept messin with me like that one day they told me common come home with us and i was like i cant ( the dayz i could go they

2006-11-25 05:47:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to drive so I frequently walk around the neighborhood to buy groceries, to the bus stop etc. once it was raining and a guy stoped by and said he would drop me off at the bus stop. I politely declined but he insisted. It was raining and he seemed harmless so I said ok. About 2 or 3 weeks later he catches me again with a lot of grocery bags walking home. So again same thing happens. Do you think he is just being kind or he is stalking me with some bad intent or he just has a platonic crush or something?

2006-11-25 05:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by bebackhome_safe 2 in Singles & Dating

Plz answer only if either you, your mate, or the both of you have cheated on one another. Are you still together? Have you gotten married since? Have you gotten over the past??? How did you??? Or was it a mistake to stay together after ??? Advice and situations plz

2006-11-25 05:46:48 · 6 answers · asked by 1st time mom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This will be a bit confusing but please follow on. I have met this guy through my bestfriend. I guess you could call this guy, my best friend' s friend. I hate being around this guy, because he is annoying, a show off and a downright loser. I hang out with him because of my best friend. My Best friend, knows how I feel about this guy -(which is bad). My best friend actually hates him too, for the same reason, and claims that this guy is just an acquaintance to him. Now my best friend moved away temporarily. He and I email everyday. Now this guy, wants to join the action, and he was asking for my Bestfriends email. My best friend doesnt really want to email him, He told me that! (i know because I have forwarded this guy's email to him). So Should I give this guy my Best Friend's email address?? or how should I decline, that I would not look like im with holding his email?

2006-11-25 05:46:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in involved with my husband's(now ex) brother in law for over 4 years and can't seem to breakaway. I think I am in love with him but how do I know for sure that it's not lust? I know it's wrong but neither one of us can seem to walk away no matter how close we become to being found out. Is there anyone dealing with the similar situation? Any advice

I neglected to add that we do spend quite a lot of time together outside of sexual encounters. We have taken trips together and we share a lot of genuine common interest in the same things which has drawn us closer together. I have been separated from my Husband for over a year and married to my Husband for 10 years. There was not an immediate attraction between me and my brother in law. It wasn't until we realized we shared common interest and spent an increasingly amount of time together when we realized that we were becoming more attracted to each other.

2006-11-25 05:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by poundcake1111 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This will be a bit confusing but please follow on. I have met this guy through my bestfriend. I guess you could call this guy, my best friend' s friend. I hate being around this guy, because he is annoying, a show off and a downright loser. I hang out with him because of my best friend. My Best friend, knows how I feel about this guy -(which is bad). My best friend actually hates him too, for the same reason, and claims that this guy is just an acquaintance to him. Now my best friend moved away temporarily. He and I email everyday. Now this guy, wants to join the action, and he was asking for my Bestfriends email. My best friend doesnt really want to email him, He told me that! (i know because I have forwarded this guy's email to him). So Should I give this guy my Best Friend's email address?? or how should I decline, that I would not look like im with holding his email?

2006-11-25 05:45:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i tell a girl its over
the things that makes it really hard is that she always keeps saying that she loves me
but i dont feel the same way about her and i want to break up with her
can anyone give me any useful tips???????????????

2006-11-25 05:45:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-25 05:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he dosen't want me to work and every where i go he wants to be there

2006-11-25 05:43:32 · 18 answers · asked by diary 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with my hubby for 11yrs and i love him to death. he works alot (midnights) and im a stay home mom. 3 yrs ago i started playing an online video game and ended up meeting a "friend". we can talk via headset on the game and have gotten very close and very flirty in the last 3 yrs. but now i can't get him out of my mind. we have NEVER seen each other not even a picture. there is EXTREME sexual tension between us. everyone on our game knows that we are like this. we always talk bout how we can never meet because we would just attack each other. he is on east coast and im in midwest. but the thing is i love my hubby and when he is around we are great together. we have a wonderful life and could NEVER leave him. but as soon as he walks out that door i can think of nothing but my "friend" my question is can i be in love with 2 men at the same time?

2006-11-25 05:42:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

plzz advise as I feel very nervous

2006-11-25 05:42:25 · 12 answers · asked by Abhishek S 2 in Singles & Dating

and he knows i like him because of my friends and i think he likes me what should i do

2006-11-25 05:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by Hannah_Montana 2 in Friends

You know, books cannot give answers that are completely satisfying. I'd like to know what you, americans, think of yourselves.

2006-11-25 05:41:57 · 1 answers · asked by dpakowka 1 in Friends

My husband and I got into a very bad argument. Hurtful things were said. To make the problem worse, I ended up drinking too much that night and placed a phone call to my ex husband. I happen to know that he is still in love with me even after all these years. I quess I was looking to talk to someone, I don't know, like I said I was very drunk. Anyway, my husband and I patched things up the next day. Now I feel so guilty. The conversation was pretty innocent but I still feel bad about the call. I also caused problems between my ex and his girlfriend. I know this through mutual friends. I would have a serious problem if my husband got a phone call at 12:30 at night from his ex wife. Should I tell my husband what I did or just leave it alone and hope he doesn't find out.

2006-11-25 05:41:49 · 12 answers · asked by atlgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im not a mean person. its this girl in my neighborhood who dresses like a boy. when we first met her we thought she was a boy. she calls me everyday and she asks me to go places with her. IM NOT GAY! but i think she is. she might be a dike! i tried to be nice to her but she scares me and my friends! The ppl i hang i hang with says that she likes me but I LIKE BOYS, ONLY BOYS! help

2006-11-25 05:41:15 · 9 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would u do if u loved ur guy friend & u told him & he wants 2 be friends??? I can't 4get about it Im sooooooooo in love!!! We r friend but I can't be cause he just makes me love him even more.

WHAT SHOULD I DO??? I NEED ADVICE!!!!!!!!

2006-11-25 05:40:48 · 8 answers · asked by Beauty Queen (Janna B) 2 in Singles & Dating

i wanna find a freind . most probabaly a girl whom likes my interests

2006-11-25 05:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by sandman 1 in Singles & Dating

well my boyfriends birthday is coming up. he is going to be 15 and i have absolutly no idea what to get him. we have been going out for almost a half a year and i love him with everything i got but im stuck. i have no idea what to get him. heres a few things about him that might be helpful...

~he is very athletic. he does just about every sport imaginable haha
~he is adopted
~he is jewish(and so am i if that helps)
~he listens to alot of music but hes all over the place with his music so i dont want to get him a cd
~he is a hopless romantic(heehee)

i dont want anything stupid because im not looking for stupid answers. only give me an answer if its a good idea please! THANK YOU!!

2006-11-25 05:39:58 · 10 answers · asked by hmmmm..... 3 in Singles & Dating

yes or no and why

2006-11-25 05:39:27 · 10 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Friends