If someone says they really love you and they are married, how long do you wait? How do you know if someone is just using you or just having his cake and eating it too? There always seems to be another excuse, another holiday, another something that keeps us apart.
2006-11-25 05:49:27 · 5 answers · asked by Mommo O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU Dont wait.....you RUN AWAY !!
why would yo consider yourself such a leeser thing that you have to be someones side kick?
If The man is married, and is fooling around, why would you want him?
doesnt that tell you what kind of person her is?
he is a liar, irresponsible, unfathful and not only to his wife, but to you as well, he is scum !!
I dont think anybody should have to share the man, you should settle for being second best...His wife has her place on to society and to the world of being MRS, presented as his wife, carries his lastname, and is respected as such.
you on the other hand, are his lover, hidden from the family and society, restricted to his free time, after his duties have been completed with his wife, you are the fantasy, and not the reality.
move on sweety, get yourself your own man. and dont wait around for trash or someones elses left overs.
even if he were to leave his wife for you,,,,you will always be the OTHER WOMAN to everybody, the home wrecker !
Move one and dont turn back !!
Have some dignity !!
2006-11-25 05:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by sandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey he is having his cake and eating it too! It is so very immoral to be with a married man. You could potentially be contributing to the break up of a family. He is using you. You don't wait anytime you get out of the relationship and ask God's forgiveness.
2006-11-25 13:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait any longer .. and move on....
Life is too short to be feeling as a second choice most of the time....
2006-11-25 13:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by notsome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married, he's already having his cake and eating it too! Wise up, and move on!
2006-11-25 13:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait at all because your situation should have never happened.
2006-11-25 14:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋