Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

I was thinking of my Xs, and only one stays with me heart wise. His name Derek. Dovolis, My Jr. High Guy. Believe it or not it was a great 1st relationship. He was defenitely more of a friend, who never asked for what I couldn't provide. Meanning he never pressured me into anything, I didn't want to do. He wrote letters that meant something. I remember his favorite song that made him think of me! ( HELLO) by Lionell Richie If anyone out there knows his where abouts, tell Regina says MUCHOS GRACIOS!

2006-11-25 06:25:24 · 5 answers · asked by jrneytime 2 in Singles & Dating

How come my parents never let me go to a friends friends party that I don't know or never met before? Everytime my mom is on the phone she tells my friend that my father will do something bad to her if I went to my friends friends party?

2006-11-25 06:25:23 · 4 answers · asked by April Ann Codon Cruz 2 in Friends

2006-11-25 06:24:48 · 15 answers · asked by unplatano 1 in Singles & Dating

I'll keep this as short as possible: We meet, hit it off real big. Things go great for a few months. She starts to go distant. Hot and cold for a while. We talk. She says she is always like this. OK, I have heard the, "It's not you, it's me" thing, you know what I assume. But things stay hot and cold. We start getting closer, she starts to push away. Up and down, like a yo yo. I start to push a little, figured it's only a matter of time that the "truth" comes out. We keep talking, she keeps saying the same thing though. I let up some, but the back and forth drives me nuts, just totally plays on every insecurity I ever had, and I back off some, push some. WTF? Finally occurs to me that she really meant what she said, something big and bad in her past. But now I've pushed her further away (not gone, but on a "break"). If I explained this to you, what would you say? I mean, what should I have thought? I have to look out for me, and who hasn't heard that line before?

2006-11-25 06:24:24 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

she wont say shes mad at me or anything, but shes being kind of mean to me. I think it has something to do with this boy who likes me (but I dont like him that way) and I think she does. I dont know what to do or how to make her want to be friends again...I could use some help. is there anything I can say to her?

2006-11-25 06:23:18 · 7 answers · asked by _heartbreak 3 in Friends

I have never had a proper boyfriend before. I think its because im shy and don't really have many guys who are friends to get talking to. Im not unattractive (i don't think). But nobody has really shown an interest in me so far (except the gut i posted about on my last question who i am not attracted to and he was desperate). Its making me think that the only guys im going to get are desperate and unkind. Some of my freinds are in really good relationships and i keep thinking that i will never find someone who truly loves me.
I am 17.
If anyone has any similar experiences pls share them. I need some friendly advice.

2006-11-25 06:23:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have to complete a form (travel insurance) and it asks if I'm related to another person included on the form (i.e my Wife). Stupid question but we can't get a definitive answer from any of our nearest and dearest! What do you think? Thanks very much.

2006-11-25 06:21:55 · 11 answers · asked by voddy-monster 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like why call me 6 times a day, tell me I'm your best friend then just quit talking to me? Isn't that rather childish? When you hit your 30's you should be more grown up than that!

2006-11-25 06:21:48 · 5 answers · asked by ya kiddin, right 2 in Friends

This kid I know, whom I will call C, likes one of these girls I WAS friends with. I will call her N. C happens to be half african-american. N is not. The other day, C worked up the courage to tell her face to face that he likes her. N smiled and nodded and walked away. C was happy, and he thought that this was good. When I asked N if she liked C she says "umm....No...why would I?" When I went on to name all of C's good qualities (it took a while to do so...) she said "shut up..you are NOT going to change my mind." When I asked our good friend S if N had a reason for not liking C, she said no. I thought a while and asked N....."Is it cause hes black?" she avoided the subject. I dont want to talk to her and she keeps calling. I dont want to continue a friendship with her if she has a problem with black people......I really dont know what to do... :-(

2006-11-25 06:21:26 · 14 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Singles & Dating

??????????

2006-11-25 06:21:20 · 3 answers · asked by Gica 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend she luvs black her parents are divorced her boyfriend broke up with her about 2 1/2 mounths ago and she still likes him and misses him dearly and stuff and she like the dark ALOT and feels like nobody cares about her and that peopel just want her to die---What should i do?

2006-11-25 06:20:04 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Fiance and I live in 2 differnt states.and want to be together.But he lives with his grandma.That wont let him do anything.without her knowing.he wants to come and see me but she wont let him.what should he or we do?So that we can see one another.He's 25 and i'm 32.and we want to be together as a family.
before we get married in may of 2007.any help would be great.
Please help us out.On finding a way to be together.thanks in advance.PS what would you do to be with ur soul mate?

2006-11-25 06:18:26 · 12 answers · asked by Angel sent from heaven 5 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy at my school that has had a crush on me from the first day. He stares at me all the time, even when I catch him doing it, and it annoys the crap out of me. He acts like a second grader when it comes to flirting, poking me and attempts at tripping me. I've told him to lay off and I ignore him when he talks to me, but it doesn't work. He's also vulgar in his speech, saying things like 'bros before hos'. I NEVER lead him on, and he knows I can't stand him. Yet he persists in acting like he does. Any suggestions on how can I get this to stop?

2006-11-25 06:18:15 · 10 answers · asked by tinabobina!!! 2 in Friends

If a girl ask you tell to decribe her in one word. what word would sweep her off her feet.

2006-11-25 06:17:48 · 25 answers · asked by fatal 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend trys 2 be a dad but the mom still wants 2 be with him so she hate me and makes stuff up so the baby cant come over and when she dose get 2 come over the mom is calling the next day asking question about everything really she calling just 2 get 2 talk 2 him . What should i do leave him so he can have a life with the baby with out having 2 fight 4 her

2006-11-25 06:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by greeny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this considered a sign of disrespect?I've done it to this girl several times out of anger and now she hates my guts....

2006-11-25 06:17:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 06:16:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he has a gf but alot of my friends (and his) think he does like me but im not really sure. We do talk alot like everyday at skool, we are always cracking each other up, we sitogether alot in class, we have quite alot in common, he's like my beat friend, we've been mistaken for going out more than once, we held hands (1 time as a joke) but he does have a gf so im not puttin any pressure or anything on him but i do like him alot!
So do you think he likes me or we are just not meant to be or just good friends? xx thanx

2006-11-25 06:16:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 06:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by rhythmoftheblues 2 in Singles & Dating

I found out that my sister in law has not only befriended my husband's mistress (now girlfriend/baby momma) but also cosigned my husbands affairs by validating lies, my husband has told to the other woman. I blame my husband (soon to be ex) for his infidelity and I have dealt with him my own way. But for my sister in law to have discredited me and tells lies about me and has even talked about my kids (her niece and nephew) with this other woman outrages me. She has been playing both sides of the fence and has acted like she was my friend for years (borrowing my car, sharing intimate details about her past lovers comparing them to her husband, borrowing ends which was never paid back and etc) I am not saying that I'm squeaky clean either. I have one piece of information that would devastate her but revealing such information would hurt someone that I truly love in the process. But I can't stop feeling the want to see egg on her face.

2006-11-25 06:16:28 · 17 answers · asked by juicydiva21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 06:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend found out this question and I know its him cause there I know there is only one arrogant, son of a billionaire like him.

Check his question on the link

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ao.txSzYdzYCX4jdoMK1vursy6IX?qid=20061124013005AAos7U2

I am not a racist. I rejected him cause he hurt my feelings.

He didn't buy me a BMW or a flat. His father bought me those. His parents, his brother and 4 sisters are so nice. His brother treats women with respect. One of his sisters is my bestfriend and his parents treat me like their daughter.

He is the son of a billionaire and good looking but he is jobless and hangs out with friends all day and thinks money is everything. He never does any work.

He is not from Harvard as he claims. The reason why I am not sueing him is because of his family who are the opposite of him. They are so nice. I never said I'll sue him. He made that up to get sympathy.

He wants me to stop being friends with muslims.

2006-11-25 06:15:29 · 10 answers · asked by Cute girl 1 in Singles & Dating

when you lose someone u loved

2006-11-25 06:15:04 · 18 answers · asked by adi_pit 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-25 06:13:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it ok if my friendthat is a year younger then me and her bf just broke up and her bf was a grade younger then her but hes supposed to be in her grade.and i am older then both of them.and my friend is going to try to hook me and her ex up.is that ok?oh we r all in middle school...is it ok if me and her ex go out?

2006-11-25 06:12:35 · 9 answers · asked by kiss the girl<3 1 in Singles & Dating

At this church thing I do, there's a beautiful young lady. A few months ago, she started going out of her way to say hello to me, give me hugs, tell me about her life, and sit VERY close to me. She'd be a real catch, and I'm not getting any younger, BUT...

I'm really good friends with her father and mother, and I'd hate to get them upset. I happen to be 27, and I believe she's 19. That's a kind of freaky age difference, especially since I met her three years ago. Getting from her house to mine would take about a 45 minute drive. Also, I'm unemployed at the moment, and she's about a foot and a half shorter than me, which may or may not be an issue.

Usually, if I can't be with a girl, I'll ignore her till she moves on, but I'm having a real hard time getting her out of my head. What should I do?

2006-11-25 06:12:07 · 2 answers · asked by ye_river_xiv 6 in Singles & Dating

If ur close female friend tells you this:(after I told her how I felt)…..

1) "I can't imagine you not being in\a part of my life" MEANING???
2)"I don't deserve your feelings"? MEANING???

I then told her a few weeks later that I needed a break from her and she DISAGREED\WAS RUDE TOWARDS ME as a result---does it mean anything???

She said friends don’t take breaks and that I should get a grip---MEANING?

My reason was that she was behaving odd towards me and I thought it best we have some time apart.Especially for me to get over my feelings.

Have said I value our friendship and I mean that.

Advice?

Has not spoken to me since,told me to do "whatever"-MEANING? What she feeling\thinking?

p.s.she don't like talking about it.

2006-11-25 06:11:58 · 12 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

Out of the six characters who would you like to go out with and why?

2006-11-25 06:11:21 · 5 answers · asked by Coco 4 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.

2006-11-25 06:11:15 · 6 answers · asked by jessica a 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 06:10:55 · 3 answers · asked by milt y 1 in Singles & Dating