she wont say shes mad at me or anything, but shes being kind of mean to me. I think it has something to do with this boy who likes me (but I dont like him that way) and I think she does. I dont know what to do or how to make her want to be friends again...I could use some help. is there anything I can say to her?
2006-11-25 06:23:18 · 7 answers · asked by _heartbreak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
be open with her, let her know you are aware this boy likes you, but that you have no interest in him at all
2006-11-25 09:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same thing! My friend likes this boy who likes me, and now she hates me. You could try telling her there are more fish in the sea, but who wants to go out with a fish? Make her laugh, and maybe if she remembers how u guys had the best of times she'll get over it. When it seems like a good time ask her why she was ignoring you. Hopefully your friendship isn't worth over a guy. Heart always! Kissy
2006-11-25 14:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does sound like shes jealous. I think you should directly ask her why shes not being very nice to you. She might say that she is being nice but tell her that you know thats not true. If its about the boy tell her that you don't like him. She might be upset that a boy dosn't fancy her. If so just try and be kind to her and see how it goes.
2006-11-25 14:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and one of my friends went through this not long ago, I thought she was mad at me about a guy and she kind of was but it was also her hormones. They kind of get the best of us girlz sometimes you know. I just sat down wit her one day told her that if she was mad I deserved to know why and she could talk to me any time. It took her awhile but she started feeling better and came to me wit the problem. Patience is a virtue.
2006-11-25 14:30:13 · answer #4 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes being mean to you for such a minute reason, maby you should rethink your friendship with her. Its always better to find out what the problem is first before jumping to conclusions.
2006-11-25 14:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by flesh_of_daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you feel like theres been some tension between you guys and see if she feels the same. if she says no then your either going to have to keep bugging her about what might be wrong or just let time fix it.
2006-11-25 14:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by NYC Princess of Contradictions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her tht if she likes the guy tht you dont want anything stupid like tht to ruin a friendship. just tlk abt it.
2006-11-25 14:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Natie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋