My boyfriend trys 2 be a dad but the mom still wants 2 be with him so she hate me and makes stuff up so the baby cant come over and when she dose get 2 come over the mom is calling the next day asking question about everything really she calling just 2 get 2 talk 2 him . What should i do leave him so he can have a life with the baby with out having 2 fight 4 her
2006-11-25 06:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by greeny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be the bigger woman this lady is always going to be in his life so do what you can to get along with her even if it only if its because of the baby this is a must if you want to be in this man's life the more you do to keep him from the child the more he is going to pull away from you and if this lady knows that you don't feel threatened by her being in his life the more she is going to lay off of you and realize that you are in his life to stay and she is just the babies mom and nothing else to him........you need to do this other wise you will loose him or the child will loose him and you don't want to be the lady who took him from his child a child needs there father and mother no matter what in their life or you could just leave him if you don't want to deal with the situation and if you decide to leave over this when times get really tough in a relationship then you will continue to run in all your relationships so now is the time to make a choice as to how your going to run your life only you can make this decision. GOOD LUCK on making the right choice
2006-11-25 06:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you. I would never leave. This issue is between your boyfriend and his child's mom. He has rights and he can by law force his rights to spend time with his child. It may cost him some money, but it is worth it not to lose you and to have a relationship with his child, there is no reason he has to choose between the two of you. Remember to support him if he decides to fight for his rights, sometimes it gets a little nasty.
2006-11-25 06:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by jesswonderin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a big person for thinking about leaving so that your boyfriend can be a father...and yes, for the sake of your boyfriend and his child, you should disappear when he has visitation. It won't be like forever, but you're going to have to give it some time so that he can be the dad that he needs to be.
2006-11-25 06:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should get court ordered visitation and have it enforced. You should not be involved in the legal process or in any way with his ex.
You should ask that his ex call your B/F directly on hiss cell or another number so you don't have to deal with her.
2006-11-25 06:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by John L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to start recording the incidents when she doesnt let the child come over. Then go see a lawyer.........she sounds really childish
2006-11-25 06:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by lilme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has legal visitation he doesnt have to answer the phone when she calls.just ignore the phone and both of you focus on making the baby comfortable with you two together.i definitly wouldnt leave him bc of her thats what she wants.
2006-11-25 06:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋