Family & Relationships - 25 November 2006

Do i ask her or do i hold her by the waist and snog or what

2006-11-25 05:28:57 · 16 answers · asked by Daniel 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3.5 months. We have a great relationship; he's the only person I've ever met that I literally can spend an entire day with and not run out of things to say. Even though he's 23 and I'm 22, I've dated a lot more in the past than he has. In fact, he's only had one other serious girlfriend (he dated her for 3 years and then he broke up with her over the summer). I'm the only other girl he's ever been in love with. Recently, he found out that his ex is dating someone else, which really bothers him. She lives in MN, and he and I live in VA. He told me he's afraid he might still have feelings for her. I think he's probably just jealous that some other guy might be taking his place, which I think is anatural reaction. However, my bf says he needs to see his ex over winter break to be sure. Clearly, a relationship between them would never work out now (he doesn't want to move back to MN). But, I'm still scared. What can I do to keep him?

2006-11-25 05:28:12 · 7 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this boyfriend ok and weve been going out for about 2 years and i really love him and i know he loves me. On my birrhday (about a month ago) he asked to marry me but i told him i wasnt ready he said hed wait for me but know im ready and wanna marry him how do i tell him?

2006-11-25 05:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll keep this as short as possible: We meet, hit it off real big. Things go great for a few months. She starts to go distant. Hot and cold for a while. We talk. She says she is always like this. OK, I have heard the, "It's not you, it's me" thing, you know what I assume. But things stay hot and cold. We start getting closer, she starts to push away. Up and down, like a yo yo. I start to push a little, figured it's only a matter of time that the "truth" comes out. We keep talking, she keeps saying the same thing though. I let up some, but the back and forth drives me nuts, just totally plays on every insecurity I ever had, and I back off some, push some. WTF? Finally occurs to me that she really meant what she said, something big and bad in her past. But now I've pushed her further away (not gone, but on a "break"). If I explained this to you, what would you say? I mean, what should I have thought? I have to look out for me, and who hasn't heard that line before?

2006-11-25 05:26:59 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

what should i do?please help!

2006-11-25 05:26:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is really sweet and sensitive

2006-11-25 05:26:28 · 16 answers · asked by Blue Babe 1 in Singles & Dating

ok........ so im breaking up with my bf on Monday. we have been dating for 2 in a half months, and have only been on two dates, and have never kissed!!!! Whenever we IM each other, nobody talks for like an hour sometimes, and he puts his friends WAY before me. he ignores me, and he smells my hair!!!!!!!!!! why is he acting this way, and i dont want to hurt his feelings when i breakup with him so any suggestions on breakup speeches would help alot ! thanks!

2006-11-25 05:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a crush on a male/guy friend or coworker at work. At first, I thought he was interested in me since he would tease me and flirt with me a lot. He would even send me emails that contained romantic songs and kept asking if I had a bf. Then I told him, that I liked him and he told me he has a gf. I tell myself that he is unavailable and that we can still be friends. Sometimes I email him at work, but then he told me that I should stop emailing him since he was getting the impression that I was sending him a lot of emails because I like him. I know he isn't the one for me since he's in luv with someone else and we are too different anyway. But then sometimes I cry in the middle of the night about him. He still teases me throughout the work day, by making funny faces, but I kinda prefer he stop. What should I do about my feelings for him? Remember, I see him at work everyday, and our desks are situated close to each other, so we are bound to run into each other

2006-11-25 05:25:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

let her move in, even if she is drop-dead gorgeous, has a killer body,and looks better thatn your GF?

2006-11-25 05:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wanna know

2006-11-25 05:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean theres this girl and she knew i already had a boyfriend that she really likes.she went and told this other boy that liked me that i liked him too.i dont though and then she gave him my phone number so he could call me and she thought my boyfriend would find out about it and break up with me and the boy did call me and i said no that i wouldnt go out with him and he called me all kinds of bad names then i told my boyfriend andhe didnt get mad at all.well can u tell me why girls half to be that way?if you have an email address for yahoo then u can leave it and i will IM u sometime!

2006-11-25 05:23:34 · 5 answers · asked by b&a4_ever 1 in Friends

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2006-11-25 05:23:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is proper for a woman to instigate the idea of love making to a guy when she feels ready to?.....who she has newly met, and she thinks is so hot, that she is more than ready to do the deed, or should she wait for the man to put the idea forward.......let me know your thoughts on this..............

2006-11-25 05:22:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

obviously he wants you to shout for pain to make him think he's big
or
he wants you to moan signs of satisfaction to make him think he knows how to work it!!

So what to do if if it's not hurtin or feelin good!!
I don't want to fake and make pretend sounds of pain or satisfaction!!

2006-11-25 05:22:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my sis went out last night and she never came back but she called this morning saying she got sick from a drink she had! Moving on we're going to the all american rejects concert today and she's sick in bed at her friends house!! If i can't get her up by 2pm we're dead because we have to get there 4 hours early!! Please can you give me some advice on how to get my sister to feeling better???

2006-11-25 05:21:08 · 8 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Family

Why do Most Christian-American women have Sex Before Marriage?

I am Muslim, African-American woman, and I truly do respect Christians-- as most of my family members are Christian..
But I notice that the majority of women in America who consider themselves Christian-- do have sex before marriage. I'm not talking about women who are "out there" or "promiscuous". But even church going women will live with their husbands before marraige, and have "long term relationships" involving sex.. I also notice the same trend among Christian men.This is very common today.

I don't judge people who have sex before marriage at all--But I notice that when Christian women ask me why I dont "have a boyfriend" (in a sexual relationship)--they will get upset or ridicule me when I say I dont believe in Sex Before Marriage.

Why have most American Christians become very accepting of sex before marriage?

Serious Answers Only.

2006-11-25 05:21:03 · 12 answers · asked by Victory 3 in Singles & Dating

i finaly got the girl i have had a crush on to go out with me
(5 minuts ago)
theres just a few problems
1)iv never had a girlfriend befor
2)i dont know how to kiss
3)i dont know how to do anything with a girl
help pleas

2006-11-25 05:20:43 · 9 answers · asked by luis 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi. I'm James, and I'm looking for nicknames. Blond hair, blue eyes, enjoys music & the arts, enjoys rock, pop, hip-hop music, etc.

Can any of you come up with any good ones?

2006-11-25 05:19:43 · 8 answers · asked by James C 1 in Friends

He leaves the room when he is on the phone ... he will not let me see it ... he believes that his phone is "private and personal". I have always trusted him and do not believe he is having an affair but it really hurts my feelings ... I feel that as a couple you should be open and honest. I have no problems with him using or reviewing my cell-phone. I have nothing to hide. Thoughts?

2006-11-25 05:19:02 · 36 answers · asked by allyinminneapolis 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm french and i'm looking for english people to talk about everything to improve my english :)

2006-11-25 05:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by itsou 1 in Friends

but when she got pregnant he dumped her. She lives far away, what can I do for her?

2006-11-25 05:18:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He loves Superman and does not have a Superman ring, know where I can get a nice one>

2006-11-25 05:18:12 · 1 answers · asked by chicken farmer 2 in Singles & Dating

Every year I dread the holidays from Thanksgiving through New Year. I guess it has to do with being an spoiled only child and then my parents got a divorce so then Christmas meant airplane rides.
Now, I am 35 with 3 kids. My son who is 17 understands what I mean, been divorced from his dad since my son was 2. My husband of the past 12 yrs and father of my 2 girls ages 9 and 10, has a a big wonderful family who all get together and embrace the holiday spirit. I NEVER want to be a part of the get togehers but hubby makes me go and it never fails that I get angry and end up hating all of them. My son feels the same way. One of the bigger cousins picks on the girls and I get MAD and they tell the mom who does nothing to her kids. My nephew smarts off to me and I get sooo mad I leave with the kids. Then hubby gets mad at me.?
He says that I am wrong. I have explained to my mother in law but she says its all family and we all have to get along. Shouldn't me and my kids be more important?

2006-11-25 05:18:02 · 9 answers · asked by confusedatothers 1 in Family

My parents tend to try to make decisions for me...yes, I'm bordering 20 years old, but I want to visit my boyfriend in New Jersey. His family and all his friends want to meet me, and I want to see him(i miss him!!) and thats where I want to go for Christmas. It will be a cheap flight because Im a college student. My parents have not met him, and it's all for several reasons because they dont like him and don't really approve of me being with him...so he and I decided to wait until he moves here in January and just get it over with. But I want to go spend like a week with him, I really do...but my mom is already making plans about "I'll drive you to see you grandma and grandpa." I can drive myself, and maybe I want to see my boyfriend for a week before I go spend the other 3 weeks with my grandparents. They assume, and I think they will give me a problem about seeing him. How do I approach it? Do I ask or tell them I'm going? What do I do?

2006-11-25 05:17:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When you dont have time to plan a wedding because of work, is Justice of the Peace a good idea until you can plan a big wedding? or do people "forget about it" and end up not doing the big wedding after a while?? Im deployed right now, so we dont have a choice...

2006-11-25 05:17:33 · 10 answers · asked by JULIA 1 in Weddings

2006-11-25 05:17:29 · 1 answers · asked by James C 2 in Friends

2006-11-25 05:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by Sweetblue85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She worked in Boulder, Colorado, USA, in the first half of the 1960s. She was from the German speaking part of Switzerland

2006-11-25 05:17:02 · 1 answers · asked by Lionhearted 2 in Friends

2006-11-25 05:16:18 · 14 answers · asked by whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-25 05:15:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating