2006-11-25 05:15:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-25 05:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's kind of a waste of your time. I don't think you're truly an ex-nerd until you stop giving a **** about the type of kids who teased you. That's when you're truly above them. Trying to prove something this way only proves that you're small and still hung up on things. This said, I do understand the impulse. I get urges to committ similar revenges on exes who broke my heart. The thing is, whenever I do, I either feel like a horrible person or I end up hurting myself in the process of hurting them. Revenge feels great before it happens. Also, just like you've changed, other people change, too. I remember running into some of the guys who teased me in high school, and being shocked at how much they've matured. Hm.. thats right... matured. As in... wouldn't play little stunts like you're thinking about....
2006-11-25 05:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by solaralley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I can see where this ex-nerd is coming from. But, revenge is never the answer. I would just show her what she is missing. Liking her & dumping her would never be the right answer.
I ran into the guy who never gave me the time of day in high school a few months ago. While we were talking, he couldn't focus on the conversation without staring at my breast.
It was refreshing but I didn't hurt him.
2006-11-25 05:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a believer of the law of cause and effect and a former nerd myself, i think the best course of action would be to just move on. revenge doesn't make you happy nor does it make up for lost time. don't spend another minute dwelling on something that happened in the past. just use that experience to be the best person you can be.
2006-11-25 05:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by beenthere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a NERD?
If someone has stooped so low as to hurt you, with out cause,
cause that GOD would recognize, then they were as pigs!
For you to react to the action of pigs, makes you no better than they are/were.
Their teasing were but OIKS from the pig pen! Would you now
chose to go back to the pen and OINK also?
I should hope that your values are higher than pig oinks!
2006-11-25 05:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do that then you lower yourself to her standards. I'd say the best way to "get back" is to be so sweet to her and give her your most handsome smile...and that's IT! That way, she'll automatically learn that she was stupid for treating you that way and she'll be sorry she did. And...you, my friend, will be the winner without being as low down as she was. Just remember that when you see a "plain Jane"; she might be a beauty in a year or two. Godloveya, Dude.
2006-11-25 05:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... ok no it's not but im sure you'll get some pleasure out of it. I know how you feel and I did something similar and it felt really good at first but then it kinda came back on me in the end. whatever we do in life comes back on us and by you doing this it will come back to you later, so why hurt anymore then you already have...
2006-11-25 05:35:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but by my own standards and morals, I find it very wrong to deal with problems like that. Regardless of what they did to you in the past, it is terrible to play with someone's emotions and mind like that. It is not only mean, it is cruel and malicious.
But then again, that's just my opinion. I hope you make the right decision.
2006-11-25 05:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly my objective sometime is to fidn my around the corner neighbor once I make myself successfull and rub it in his face that I have been given warm and am no longer the nerd i replaced into. I had a large weigh down on him. So yeah this is cool
2016-12-13 14:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want to be like that person..small and insignificant..rise above the bitterness..and let it go..and vow in your heart to never be that petty and evil..but to be kind and compassionate towards those who have been hurt in a similar circumstance. Ya know, two wrongs don't make a right..and "vengeance is MINE, sayeth the LORD!"
2006-11-25 05:19:49 · answer #10 · answered by Goodie2shoes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you live? In a movie script? Human beings with real life feelings don't pull stupid stunts like that. Move on. Be the better person. Do not stoop to the same lows.
2006-11-25 05:17:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋