I have this boyfriend ok and weve been going out for about 2 years and i really love him and i know he loves me. On my birrhday (about a month ago) he asked to marry me but i told him i wasnt ready he said hed wait for me but know im ready and wanna marry him how do i tell him?
2006-11-25 05:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You: Remember what you asked me on my birthday?
Him: Yeah? What about marriage?
You: Yeah. Ask me again.
hahahaha...thats the best thing to do.
2006-11-25 05:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you werent ready a month ago, what makes you think you are ready now/
marruage is not a game, its a lifetime commitment.
I dont know hat your reasons were one month ago, but I dont think things change thats fast, to make a lifetime commitment.
before, you can say I DO, think about the real meaning to thins...its not fantizing on the wedding day, but rather on what it involves...the wedding day last only that day..
the marriage is meant to last for ever!
Are you both finincially set to commit, are you both mature enough to understand the commitment?
its worth waiting until you are ready and completely committet to each other, than to adventure of and be divorced with kids in the near future.
2006-11-25 13:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by sandi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with just saying: Do you remember what you asked me on my birthday?? and of course!! he is going to say yeah why? and you have to say: will you ever ask me again?? now you know, that if he loves you and wants to ask again, he will. If he dont, then he probably feels like you did him wrong and he is embarrased to get rejected. Did he ask you with a ring the first time??
2006-11-25 13:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by JULIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say..
Remember when you asked me to marry you and I told you I was not ready..
Well I am ready now.. I will be your Wife.. I love you..
Be sappy and make him cry.. LOL happy cry that is lol
2006-11-25 13:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him
"let's get married"
2006-11-25 13:30:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋