What should I do?

Question

I have a crush on a male/guy friend or coworker at work. At first, I thought he was interested in me since he would tease me and flirt with me a lot. He would even send me emails that contained romantic songs and kept asking if I had a bf. Then I told him, that I liked him and he told me he has a gf. I tell myself that he is unavailable and that we can still be friends. Sometimes I email him at work, but then he told me that I should stop emailing him since he was getting the impression that I was sending him a lot of emails because I like him. I know he isn't the one for me since he's in luv with someone else and we are too different anyway. But then sometimes I cry in the middle of the night about him. He still teases me throughout the work day, by making funny faces, but I kinda prefer he stop. What should I do about my feelings for him? Remember, I see him at work everyday, and our desks are situated close to each other, so we are bound to run into each other

Answer 1

I'm so sorry for your situation. That has to be tough. If I were you I'd start asking some of my girlfriends to fix me up on some dates. The best way to get over this guy is to start seeing other people. You should also stop all non work related corespondances. No more emails unless they are about work! :)

Answer 2

I would tell him the truth and how you feel. If you want him to stop make it clear and he should but may be hes just saying he is in a relationship to see how much you care about him, and to see if your willing to work for him... I know that's how I was with the first guy i dated.. But now the tables are turned in my life and I'm waiting for him may be you should do the same if u care about him..

Answer 3

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