worlds dumest question?

Question

i finaly got the girl i have had a crush on to go out with me
(5 minuts ago)
theres just a few problems
1)iv never had a girlfriend befor
2)i dont know how to kiss
3)i dont know how to do anything with a girl
help pleas

when i said do i did not mean sex

Answer 1

Actually, you are not giving yourself enough credit.
You got her to go out with you!
And you asked for help so that you don't blow it!
You must have some idea how to talk with her.
That's real good!
Take it slow, and keep it simple. She will let you know when she thinks it is time to get romantic.
Act sexy, talk clean. Let her tell you about when she is ready for things.
First things first:
Clean breath. Brush teeth before date, and mouth wash. Carry breath mints. Use them.
Wear good cologne, like Jovan Musk or Aramis, not heavy. Spray it up in the air, close your eyes, and walk into it (naked).
Wear interesting, stylish clothes, or at least be very neat, with freshly cut, neatly styled hair, and polished shoes and boots. Dress contemporary.
When you are with her, only she exists. Other girls,
sporting events, whatever...block them out.
Ask her easy Qs about herself. What music she likes,
who is her fave movie star - avoid controversy. Disagree with nothing at first. Give her positive feedback, nod your head, "Ummhmm...", you know.
Laugh if appropriate (funny or amusing). Keep it light.
Don't ask "yes or no questions," don't give short, uninformative answers.
Touch her on the shoulder, arm, hand. How does she react? Does she smile and encourage you? Move closer? Is her breathing quicker?
Take your time.
Look her in the eye and hold it. If she looks back, a little misty, lighty, very lightly, stroke her face with one hand, slowly, a caress.
If she sighs or closes her eyes, cup her face very lightly in both hands, and slowly, eyes open so you know what you are doing, bring your face close to hers, so that she can feel your CLEAN breath, and she may come thae last bit for the kiss, or may wait.
Just brush her lips with yours lightly once or twice,
This will be new to her maybe, and then, still lightly cupping and caressing her face, put your lips on hers and listen (if you can) to her sounds. Leave your mouth open a little, and don't be super shocked if she gives you her tongue, and if she does, or just kisses with enthusiasm or passion, then keep the kiss going a while, breathe deeply and slowly (yeah right!) through your nose.
http://www.sexuality.org and
http://www.mentalhelp.net
Will answer Qs on where to go after that. Take it easy, you are young, and being very close, being able to share feelings, hold hands kiss, and have a gf are a lot more important than sex, which is better left until you can support a child, not in high school. That said, carry a condom. You are not yet ready to be a dad.
You will likely both be nervous. Visualize these moves several times before you do them. Practice on a dummy in front of a mirror. Make one.
Relationships take time.
If you make a mistake, apologise, and mean it!!
Call her the next day, and ask her out again.
Find out how she feels. Let her KNOW that you like being with her. Tell her you like her.
Save "love" for love, not like.
http://www.teenrelationships.org
Find an older guy you know who gets along with the ladies, and ask for help. Use what works. Yes, this is done!
If something is NOT working, stop, ask, always be concerned for the woman's feelings. Her breathing,
how she stands, how close she gets, her tone of voice tell you more than her words. It's a lot to learn, but no one ever gave me this start!
Every "No" is not a personal rejection.
Try, but realize that many people are not meant to be couples, and many are. If it doesn't work out, try to remain friends, and move on. You may get back together later, if you part well. People change, sometimes.

Answer 2

There is always a first time for everything so just relax and have fun. Don't worry about kissing. That comes naturally if and when the time is right (you will know). And as for what you "do" with a girl, just show her a lot of respect, treat her with consideration and kindness, laugh and be yourself. The more at ease and natural you can be, the better. It will make her relax too. Do enjoy your new world of dating. Use common sense. Do unto others as you would like to be treated and all will be well. :)

Answer 3

Enjoy learning all of these things, because when you look back on life, you'll remember that nervousness with great fondness!!

Just go for it, and do what feels right for you.

Have fun!

Answer 4

treat her the way you think a princess should be treated. be honest and tell her that you have never kissed anyone b4. she will appriecate the honesty and it will help built something better. and if she likes you im sure she will help you learn to kiss

Answer 5

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Answer 6

just be yourself and you shouldent have problems and kissing comes naturally when it happens you will know what to do

Answer 7

be yourself, and if she had all those things before, she'll know what to do

Answer 8

be urself and good luck

Answer 9

good luck. just go with it.