ok........ so im breaking up with my bf on Monday. we have been dating for 2 in a half months, and have only been on two dates, and have never kissed!!!! Whenever we IM each other, nobody talks for like an hour sometimes, and he puts his friends WAY before me. he ignores me, and he smells my hair!!!!!!!!!! why is he acting this way, and i dont want to hurt his feelings when i breakup with him so any suggestions on breakup speeches would help alot ! thanks!
2006-11-25 05:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were both 14
2006-11-25 05:26:12 · update #1
i just want us to be friends
2006-11-25 05:27:06 · update #2
ok yeyyy, if theres something that happens alot to me, thats getting dumped lol, but at 2 1/2 moths your still in the safe zone of saying you just don't like himt hat way, but honestly if he puts his friends first he probably won't be to heart broken, al you have to do when you break up with a guy is be honest say whats wrong, and then say and because of this, i don't think we should go out anymore, give the problem, then break up, then walk away, he might be stuned for a few min, but then he be glad you where honest..... because honesty is valued, if you leave for a guy admit it, we find out later and it only hurts more, i mentioned that to state honesty to break up with a guy will be the only way to do it, tell him why, and thats the easyest way
2006-11-25 05:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you only want a friendship out of him because friends like him can be trusted more than a boyfriend can be trusted and you don't want to loose that friendship with what you two have already, You have alot going on in your life now and don't want anything more than that between you two. If you want to date others or see other people than at least you'll know what's out there and you can compare your friendship based on those ideas for future expectation as a to what you want more out of each other later on...
2006-11-25 05:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by puppylovetfp.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
example : "Billy bob, you're not the person I thought you were. LOok, i need someone who can really understand what I need and for the past two months I really don't feel like that special person. Until you get your act straight, I don't think we should be together anymore."
Oh yeah don't forget that "we can still be friends" part also.
2006-11-25 05:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by vincent_o_mejia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He puts his friends before u and sounds like hes a little wierd. Dont try to hard just get rid of him. it doesnt have to be a big production. Your just not ready for a serious relationship right now.
2006-11-25 05:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are no longer an item he does'nt deserve to be told nicely .And dont fall for any sympathy rubbish or IM him anymore make it a clean break.
2006-11-25 05:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how have u been datin gfor 2 months if youve only ben on 2 dates/ If theyre ur bf you have to have been on at least 3 dates.
2006-11-25 05:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by kadmarco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres no better way to put things into place other than saying the truth. Be honest, no matter how you say it, it will hurt nonetheless. Its gonna hurt him no matter how you say it. just be honest about how you feel. You will be doing both yourselves a big favor. Ü
2006-11-25 05:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't call him a bf I've had sock's on for longer than that.Try c ya fellow I've found someone newer.
2006-11-25 05:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your mom doesn't want you to start seeing boys yet. 14 LOL. I don't think you can call him your boyfriend until you or him ask if the relationship is exclusive.
2006-11-25 05:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by romeo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are still young, and have a lot to learn from the opposite sex.
2006-11-25 05:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋