Do you think it is proper for a woman to instigate the idea of love making to a guy when she feels ready to?.....who she has newly met, and she thinks is so hot, that she is more than ready to do the deed, or should she wait for the man to put the idea forward.......let me know your thoughts on this..............
2006-11-25 05:22:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, let's separate your 2 points here into 2 questions.
1. Under normal circumstances a woman has the right to express her desires... Nothing is more exciting than knowing a woman is turned on by you.
2. But your dilemma is that you just met this guy, so in doing so, you come across as easy or whatever. Well, I never met a woman who couldn't express herself without having to say the words and without jumping my bones. There are so many techniques you women have.
Most men will get the message.
2006-11-25 05:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by snvffy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A women should instigate it as often as she feels a desire to make love, provided it's reasonable to do that. (the house isn't on fire, the in-laws aren't arriving in 5 minutes, etc...)
Most men, I believe, really respond to that. I know I do!!
Both partners should feel comfortable initiating sex.
2006-11-25 13:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I know it must be hard waiting, but everytime a woman was very forward in that area, I always wanted to run. Not saying I always did, but it felt "too" easy, therefore less apealing. You half to drawn him in more suttlee.
2006-11-25 13:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Seerin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it should be mutual! =) both should instigate it. if you try to and he doesnt feel ready and what not you could feel shot down in a way =(
2006-11-25 13:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by laa dee da 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you are 18 or older, go for it. If you are younger than that then try to wait a while.
2006-11-25 13:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get in the moment and let your actions speak for themselves. Honestly, if it's all blurry later and you have no idea who started it, that's the way to go. ;)
2006-11-25 13:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by The Mad Shillelagh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure of course females should...
why not
and then guide him to what you want, making him think he is doing what he wants,
this way your very happy and he is happy too.
but why wait for him, take the lead when ever you want to start things up, you will find it works quite well that way..
good luck
smile
2006-11-25 15:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. I am agressive like that sometimes. I have found that I am more submissive, however, when he starts it. I just give over and let him do what he wants with me.
2006-11-25 13:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that when one of the 2 feals ready that should tell there partner
2006-11-25 13:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by luis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should wait for the man
2006-11-25 13:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by kaschara200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋