he dosen't want me to work and every where i go he wants to be there
2006-11-25 05:43:32 · 18 answers · asked by diary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he doesn't seem too good of a guy. sit down and say "(name) i need to talk to you. i think we've been having some problems..." if that doesn't work and he continues to be controlling LEAVE HIM. he doesn't deserve u. u be the boss for once.
2006-11-25 05:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt want you to work, maybe. Because I know a guy who is controlling and cant stand the fact that his wife works so he makes her walk to work somtimes and her work isnt just around the corner. He calls there to check up on her to as if she was going to leave or do something ... she lets him walk all over her. Dont be like her, if you see signs now, do something about it. Good luck :)
2006-11-25 05:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him. He's like a dictator or something... He shouldn't be the one controlling the relationship and where it goes. He DEFINITELY shouldn't be following you 24/7 and making choices FOR you. Drop him before you get into an abusive marriage or something of that sort.
2006-11-25 05:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that bothers now...probably will bother you and after 1 year. After all it is a problem if he controlles you. If you can handle it than it's ok , but if you don't try to talk with him...and if it doesn't work then...you have to make a further decision.
2006-11-25 05:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably very controlling and he has a lot of jealousy. This is sign of insecurity. Try to make him more secure of your feelings and he may get better. Otherwise it could get worse. You are not going to be able to go to the grocery store without him.
2006-11-25 05:47:01 · answer #5 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. 10 years from now I am going to read in the newspaper how he had you and the kids locked in a house while he went to work. Get rid of him
2006-11-25 05:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by maamu 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a thin line dividing obsessive love and control. If you're not comfortable with what he suggests tell him. His reaction should tell you all you want to know.
2006-11-25 05:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by alltheanswers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously wonts to be around you but when a guy starts to controll you then its time to let him go
2006-11-25 05:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by cinderella_579 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds more like you know that h's controling Get your freedom by leaving the retard.
2006-11-25 05:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should be with your b/f. this is the start of the end. either he needs to let you be your own person outside of the relationship or there shouldn't be a relationship.
2006-11-25 05:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋