am i trying to hard gals?

Question

i am a 22 year old shy single naughty boy. i have never had a g/f . but i have been trying realy hard to break out of my sheel to get a g/f?i been to clubs,joined groups, even go to the gym to improve my chance of getting a gal.but i am hopeless and given up all hope of getting one. well recently i have been trying desperate things to get attention from gals,like hanging out my brilliant white c.k underpants on my washing line to dry so galsin the neighbour hood notices,i have been dropping things in front of gals like paperwork in the hope they pick it up and start talking to me.even bumping into gals in clubs after pretending to be drunk, but to no avail.then after watching a movie,i saw summit that inspired me, it was about how a bussiness man wines and dines and talks big bucks on his cell phone to impress the gals. so last week i decided to copy him, i went on bus and trian rides talking to myself on my mobile pretending im a successful business man and talking big to impress.

but still i can't get one, am i trying too hard or am i destined to be a loner all my life?

Answer 1

just look at wot other people have worte, JUST BE YOURSELF, there's nothing more i want to add to that.

Answer 2

Dude, I'll give it to you straight. You are trying WAY too hard, and going about the the wrong way. Everything you're saying is a turn-off to girls. First of all, take a good look at yourself in the mirror. Are you clean and do you take care of your dental hygeine? Are your fingernails clean? Your clothes? Your shoes? Do you need a haircut? Girls look at that first just like you look at girls. Now, lets assume you're a clean cut average guy. You have to have good manners. You can't go around dropping things, and pretending. Who wants to be around a drunk or a big-mouth business guy? Here's a trick: when you go out and you're looking for a nice girl, don't go to the one who everyone is wanting; look for the girl on the side who is quiet and shy. If there is a seat available, ask, "mind if I sit?". Chances are she'll let you. The talk to her about her!! "Hi my name is, Joe and you are?" She'll answer. "you like this place?" She'll answer. Talk about her, give her a compliment " you have the nicest smile, thats why I wanted to talk to you" and SMILE back! Now...enjoy her company, buy her a drink, be sincere no bul*sH*it, ok? Tell her you're sort of shy and nervous. Ask her where she likes to have lunch. She will answer. "Wow, MEE TOO". Now...here is the trick. "Why don't we meet for lunch tomorrow? I'll treat? Say, 1:00?" Give her your phone number. Enjoy the night and have lunch tomorrow with the girl. Remember it's only lunch. One or two hours of one-on-one and you will know if she likes you and you'll know if you want to continue further. This will give you an opportunity to really talk. And if you don't hit it off, so what? It was only lunch and you can leave in an hour. Give it a try. I think this could help you a lot. Good luck, Romeo. Godloveya.

Answer 3

Seriously, bragging that ur big and successful will probably look fake and banging into women and hanging ur underpants on the line and acting drunk is only going to attract girls who are just after a one night stand and nobody decent. I know that any girl seems better than no girl but ul regret it in the long run. Its sounds that ur acting kinda desperate which is not attractive so why not slow down and accept ur single for a while. Get talking to girls but not with cheesy chat up lines ask them what there into and what they do etc. treat them like freinds and after a while if you feel it going further make a move.

Answer 4

I'm confused. In your last question you wrote.

we have known each other for about one and a half year, im 20, she is 22.she is just so so naughty,she allways playing about and behaveing like a spoilt child when we go out, she embarreses me sometimes as ppl look at us two in confusion when she starts being naughty in public.how or what can i do for her to stop being like this, i have told her many times to act like a grown up but she becomes just more naughtier, someone pls help?

That was 2 days ago. now your two years older who has never had a girlfriend. what happened to the one you had yesterday and the year and a half before that.

I'd try being honest with women. You seem to have a problem with that. You will never get a girlfriend by lying.

Answer 5

Hun dont try so hard. I am 19 and in the same boat yet I have had many boyfriends. I just cant find one worth my time. If you need more help or would like to chat email me. Click on my face. hehe. Dont try so hard. Makes you look desperate. You want to look like your looking but not. Sad but true everyone wants what they cant have. Make yourself unavaibale and then all the girls will want you. Instead of pretending to talk big to impress a girl. Pretend to talk to a girlfriend and be all sweet and all the girls will awww in your presence. Or pretned your talking to your mom. A girl might go oh were you talking to your girlfirned you can be like no it was my mom. Girls want a sweet guy. Good Luck.

Answer 6

First...you need to be yourself and not follow anyone else's "game."

I think you'll find that if you just be yourself and don't try so hard you'll be able to find someone. Simple things like talking to a girl at a store or at a cafe are starting points. Say something nice to a girl you see to strike up a conversation.

Forget about hanging your underwear out to dry like some sort of flag and pretending to be drunk. Thats DEFINITELY not helping your cause. I'm sure you have plenty of personality when you're just being you.

Answer 7

OMG, honey. Stop the facade right now! Girls are not going to care if you talk on your phone like a big business guy. Plus, if you're on the bus and train talkin that way, isnt that odd? Shouldnt you be driving or being driven if you have $$$?
girls like honesty. Girls like people who dont play games. If you seea girl ina bar you think is attractive, send her a drink, then go say hi. If it doesnt work, then it wasnt meant to be.
Yes, you're trying to hard. Just be yourself. There are multiple someones out there for everyone, and if you show your true colors, you will attract one of them.
And unless you really like the smell of laundry clean off the line, just dry your undies in the dryer.
Good Luck!!!!

Answer 8

Maybe instead of trying all these ridiculous methods, you should just walk up to a girl you like and start talking to her. You will know quickly if she's interested, and you can then ask her out. All the rest of that nonsense you described is the behaviour of an adolescent. If you're too shy to talk to them, you're going to remain alone. Time to grow up.

Answer 9

WOW yes you are trying to hard! I laughed when I saw the underpants on the line thing though. You dont haft to try that hard youll meet the right person when the time is right and if you dont theres always ebay mabby you could find a chick there ebay has everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Yes, you're trying a little too hard.....just wait and the right girl will come into your life eventually =) Hope everything works out for you!

Answer 11

I think you are trying to hard. Let the girls come to you! If they are not coming to you after a long time,go back to the things you were doing.