Ok....my girlfriends best friend and me used to be really good friends, but now we are'nt getting along because she thinks i'm trying to steal her friend(my gf) away...which i'm not.
My girlfriend just put us on a break so she could try to figure out what can be done, and hopefully to stop the fighting between me and her best friend, because it puts allot of stress on her.
She says she still loves me, and i know there is'nt another guy involved....do you think she actually intends to get back together or should i cut my losses and try to stop caring....i still love her
2006-11-25 05:53:47 · 6 answers · asked by surfunboi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are both full or crap. Bro, she either wants you or she doesn't.
It seems to me that her friend is on the lesbian side, so you better wise up. Everybody knows that when a guy and a girl date, all other friends take a back seat. Your girlfriend seems to have something to hide as well. She may be "kicking with the left foot" (she likes the lesbian relationship) and may be trying to decide whether she will do the guy or the girl on the sack, you dig?
There are plenty of girls out there, so don't waste your time with losers. Besides, it your time to build your personal finantial empire and not waste your life with "little girls."
Mr. M
2006-11-25 06:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, look, you need to consider why she is acting like this. (your gf's friend) have you ever thought that maybe your gf's friend could like you as more than a friend? Did her friend start acting like this right after you and your gf started dating? If yes, that could be a problem. Also, you just may be making her feel left out.
As far as whether or not to hold on, that is up to you. I know it's easier said than done, but listen to your heart. If you still love her, try to make things work, but if you feel they never will, let it go.
2006-11-25 14:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to wait for her? Did she give you a time line? Did you guys agree not to see other people? I will tell you this if I were you I wouldn't sit around waiting. You dont have to date, but I would still be going out with friends and having fun. Who know you may find that there is someone else out there for you or she may think wow! I better get my life balanced before I loose this really great guy. Your choice but life is short dont let it go by. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 14:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by jesswonderin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, sounds like when you and your girl get back together you need to have her spend some time with her friend too and don't be mad or sad about it. Also try and suggest the three of you doing something together that won't make her friend feel like a third wheel. Something that the girls want to do. i know you might feel like a third wheel but at least pretend to have fun and it will decrease tension
2006-11-25 14:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..keep your gf try to talk to her friend let her know your not taking her away you just love her and love spending time with her.
2006-11-25 13:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time....sometimes that's all it takes...and maybe get a friend of yours to double with u guys...that way she could still have her friend but u have her too
2006-11-25 13:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by Pickles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋