im not a mean person. its this girl in my neighborhood who dresses like a boy. when we first met her we thought she was a boy. she calls me everyday and she asks me to go places with her. IM NOT GAY! but i think she is. she might be a dike! i tried to be nice to her but she scares me and my friends! The ppl i hang i hang with says that she likes me but I LIKE BOYS, ONLY BOYS! help
2006-11-25 05:41:15 · 9 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey confussed chica. see you on moday! (chloe)
2006-11-25 05:47:37 · update #1
KENDREA U GOT ISSUES BUT THAT GURL DO SCARE DA MESS OUT OF ME WIT OL' GAY MAN LOOKIN *** LICKING PUSSY *** !!!!SRY
2006-11-25 05:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by confused chica 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, maybe she's just looking for a friend. Let's give her the benefit of the doubt. Even if she's gay, she can have straight friends, right? Here is what I would do: next time she calls you, ask her to come over and talk. You have to do this face to face. Ask her straight-up, "I'm sorry I've been standoff-ish, but I really need to know something. You some people think you're a lesbian; is that true? Because I'm not looking for a female relationship and I just wanted to give that message to you right off the bat." Then allow her to tell you how she feels about herself. If she says she's just looking for a friend, you can be her friend. But if she's looking for more than a friend, tell her you're not interested. That's all there is to it. I'm sure she will appreciate you being up front with her, and actually, it will give you the upper hand and you won't be "scared" of her anymore. If she happens to be straight, introduce her to some guys!! I think you'll do ok. Godloveya.
2006-11-25 13:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best I can tell you is just stay away from her, no phone calls [don't ans.]ignore her and stay closer to your girlfriends. Get a boy and tell him what is going on have him walk with you where she will see you both.
Tell her mother that she scares you, maybe her mom & dad can do something to help you and her. She sounds like she could use some help.
2006-11-25 13:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by Angell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wouldnt you be able to be friends JUST friends with someone that likes girls that is a girl? come right out and ask her if she is gay and if she is tell her your being nice because she is new to the neighborhood not because you like her in that way. i think she will understand and try remaining friends with her if your not too freaked out about her being gay.
2006-11-25 13:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by monkeybread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what? you just gonna have to hint her or TELL HER that you like men only. Of course, she might just be like: Oh is cool, im not tryna get with you... when she probably is tryna turn you out!!! so be careful!! if you put yourself in that kind of situation, it might get ugly!! you can also, just kind of ignore her or just be very quiet when she is around, so that she gets the fact that yall dont like her like that! Trust me, she might keep trying and she is going to probably deny that she wants you!!
2006-11-25 13:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by JULIA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. You did a nice job of explaining the situation here. so I know you can tell her that you don't like her in the same way that you think she likes you.
2006-11-25 13:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime she invites you, just refuse but in a not-offending manner because she has feelings too. If she tells you straightforwardly that she likes you, that's the time you'll tell her how you really feel, but in a not-offending manner still. :-)
2006-11-25 13:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just nicely tell to not brother you
2006-11-25 13:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by pinkgangster_10 m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell her i don't know how you get down but i am Strictly Dickly.
2006-11-25 13:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Brad A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋