Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

im 16 years old. I smoke cigs and i need to tell my parents that i smoke. They sort of said theyll never see my again if i did but i dont think its fair how in asian cultures.. guys can smoke but girls shouldnt. They said girls have to get pregnant and the baby will come out retarded but how the hell does it affect my baby that i dont even have yet? I have a feeling they know that i smoke but theres this guilty feeling that itll break up mai family. help me out wut shuld i do?

2006-11-24 09:06:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I can tell this girl really likes me. She openly says that she's waiting for me to ask her out. She also says I'm sexy and she wants to make out with me. The problem is that I don't like her. She looks good, but looks aren't everything. I like a lot of things about her, but the fact that she's loud and self-centered is a turnoff. I've also led her on a little bit. So what's the best way to turn her down without hurting her feelings and still remain friends?

2006-11-24 09:06:36 · 22 answers · asked by Josh 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, i have a friend who is always starting arguments with people for no reason (but maybe it is because she is bored) and it is really upsetting. recently she fell out with my other friend and wouldnt sit at th same table as her, bitched about her calling her fat and stuff, and making me choose. i am really starting to dislike her but if i did break friends with her that would leave me with quite a few less friends as i am not very popular. do u think i should ditch her or keeep her?
x emily x

2006-11-24 09:05:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2006-11-24 09:05:19 · 3 answers · asked by michaelcarterv2 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi , i am working with MNC.. a gal has reported to mgmt that i have harased her in cab. Actually what happened is she does not want to come in the night shift so she told that i touched some part of her body in cab. And this is total lie. Now driver and the other cab mates are with me and supporting me but i dont know why the gal is doing this. If something wrong happens i will be thrown out of the company without my fault. Pleas advice as the MNC are very strict abt this kind of issue. I dont want to loose my job at this time. Thanks.

2006-11-24 09:04:30 · 4 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Friends

My friend is alot younger than me and I wish that I could help her but I am stuck on how to help her. Her grandmother, who hasn't spoken to her in many years, asked her to choose something for Xmas. The girl chose a laptop and her grandmother said yes. The girl is only 12, will be 13 very soon. She is in 7th grade. Her mother told her that once she got into high school,, she would be aloud to have a laptop and a cell phone. In the girl's position, what would you do?

2006-11-24 09:03:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What is the best story you have ever been told.

2006-11-24 09:03:13 · 14 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Friends

2006-11-24 09:02:07 · 6 answers · asked by frutoeduardo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, i've been seeing my boyfriend for a year and he's really good with my daughter and i we always spend time as a family. My daughters father is in and out of her life and has been keeping her ocassionaly when i have things to do. She will stay with him but she will cry to go home. He wonders why shes so anti-social with him, duh its because she doesnt know him well. Anyway its the opposite with my boyfriend. They love eachother and she calls him uncle-daddy. He doesnt seem to mind. I've noticed that yesterday i took her to see her dad and she was very cold with him, she didnt want to stay, but she was so happy when i took her over my boyfriends house. He doesnt know i have a boyfriend and I dont get into his personal business because I dont care.If he knew his kid was calling another guy dad he would get so mad but why would he care when he's not doing sh!t for her? Am I a bad mother?I dont care too much for her father but he is starting to get on my nerves now.

2006-11-24 09:01:55 · 9 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy I know in my martial arts class and I think he has been flirting with me. He is always friendly and like after saying hi or bye to everyone, he'll say it a second time towards me. He is very nice, etc. The head instructor mentioned something about perfume and added jokingly towards this guy in question, "Well, I guess you guys wouldn't know about it, but I'm surprised Brad didn't!" And that got me wondering that maybe he may be gay... He is skinny.(although I've seen toothpick guys before have large families). So, my question is: how can you tell if a guy is gay or not? Especially, if he is one of those that you can't tell? I know with with you can spot a mile away. Other than him being skinny and that remark from the head instructor, I don't think he is gay.

2006-11-24 09:01:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 09:00:05 · 6 answers · asked by Alley 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it more appealing? i dont understand. To me it seams guly that ur pants are fallin off. Do girls like it that way?

2006-11-24 08:59:54 · 27 answers · asked by RedneckCuitie 2 in Singles & Dating

May I remind you 22,000 pounds a year, and no debts I have my own place, and I am not in debt and have the luxury of buying into my morgage but to have such given aspirations is really such a reality I am saying it as it is, I want to earn 30k a year, and I have no debts, but then again I could go and practise law and make a starting wage of a Lawyer remind me how they start on alone, or go to the It sector and start on 23 a year, with two of the biggest It companies in the United Kingdom which I can't name for legal reasons, but then again idiots have such a reponse to practise law, and again I have allready had massive interview for places with a starting salary of 19,000 with the view of going up to 25,000 a year.

2006-11-24 08:59:27 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew B 2 in Family

2006-11-24 08:58:53 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 08:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by Cindy 1 in Singles & Dating

where can i find a friend school? no way every one hates me.
Maby the internet? smith_kagome@yahoo.com

2006-11-24 08:58:35 · 8 answers · asked by Kagome S 1 in Friends

Hes a fun loving person. He likes things like riding ATV's, playing in the toy isle while Im shopping for the kids (lol), fishing, movies, ect...Im taking him to the movies, but I want to do something fun and unique also. Any ideas? (and I got the "night thing" handled - thanks :-)

2006-11-24 08:57:57 · 13 answers · asked by debbiehelms 2 in Singles & Dating

do people up in age like 65 and up still have sex?

2006-11-24 08:57:44 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met a guy 4m canada online, he's really nice we like each other, but i live in the caribbean. i really want to be with him but how would we see each other. i live 12 hours away from him by air. am a student, still in college will graduate in 2007, and was planning to attend a university in canada to be close to him. what do u think i should do? am i making the right decision.

2006-11-24 08:57:22 · 1 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't get along with girls very much and infact I find them to be pretty boring company. All my friends have always been guys and I'm always just "one of the guys" y'know? That's how I roll, I'm chill and laid back. My problem is that they all always f*cking fall for me. Ugh. I can't keep a friend worth damn when they're all getting upset that I don't want to be with them.
People say "Stop hanging out with guys then, that will solve it", but then I would have no one to hangout with to have fun. I need friends just like everyone else.
I can't be friends with gay guys either if you're thinking of suggesting that. They behave in a way that makes me want to be far far far away from them. (From my experiences).

Help me !!! I'm tired of being the bad guy who has to say "I don't like you like that" lol.

2006-11-24 08:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by Juniper84 3 in Friends

2006-11-24 08:56:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 08:56:46 · 15 answers · asked by kk_babyboo95 1 in Singles & Dating

a lot of ppl say it isnt right when a woman supports a man but a lot of the same ppl dont bat an eye when a man supports a woman, i realize that the latter is more traditional, but traditionaly men and women werent really seen as being equals, and nowadays they are, so how is a woman supporting a man any different from a man supporting a woman

this question isnt about myself, as i have a job, and am not currently in a relationship

2006-11-24 08:56:12 · 10 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Keep in mind I am 17 she is 18...
She is the best.....
She is Perfect
I love her and she loves me

2006-11-24 08:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-24 08:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by thunderpants91 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok ladies..I you can take a college course that would teach you how to be a good wife, what would they teach in this class?? Only a good wife and nothing else..
Ok gents..same question for you...But your course would be how to be a good husband!!

2006-11-24 08:54:29 · 9 answers · asked by gators gutt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what to do, i love her so much, i'd give anything to get her back :'( what do i do?? Please help me, i can't live without her :'(

2006-11-24 08:54:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the Bride or the Bridesmaid, and what about the groomsmen tuxes

2006-11-24 08:53:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Although i work 37 hours a week and i'm a single mother of two i still struggle to pay mortgage debts and so on. I justwish a fairy godmother would come up with some magical solution!!! Any ideas (sensibleones pls) i dont want to be a hooker!!!!

2006-11-24 08:53:53 · 32 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We started going out about Semtember, and everything was great! i mean he was funny, charming, hott, he was like a prince charming! The only thing i wanted 2 tell him was how much i loved him, but it had been 2 monthes and i was scared to say it because i didnt know how he would react to it, so i didnt. Well last week i went over 2 his house and we watched scary movies and had a great time, but the next day he told me, i just see you as a friend. Its was so shocking that i couldnt even look at him. He also told me that i was his best girlfriend, like a friend that is a girl, and that he didnt want a realationship to ruion it. He called me a couple of days later and asked if he could talk 2 me about somthing, so i said yes, and he told me that hes always loved my best friend aime. He told me about how she was pretty, smart, and how much he loved her. After i got off the phone i sat down and cried for hours, thinkin about how much i wanted 2 hear him say that. I no i should move but how?

2006-11-24 08:53:24 · 2 answers · asked by aShLeY 2 in Singles & Dating