Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

I experienced lots of dud dates on the internet. I have been super selective now and been looking for quite a while. Finally, this woman I think is tremendous and feel I can go far with her. I do not want to blow it. She and I are both easy going, not bar flies types. I am 38, she is 35. Live in big city.

What are some good first dates? Please give me many ideas. Thanks.

2006-11-24 08:52:07 · 10 answers · asked by jonny 1 in Singles & Dating

I was going to brake up with my bf bc i didnt believe that i shoud continue to wait for him everytime he was put in jail but now hes getting out soon but my parents arent going to let me see him ne more bc they just found out his real age but what they say has never stopped me before and isnt this time my bf called and we talked bout what we were going to do we r still together and we have decided to stay together but im not for sure if thats what i want i know we can get through this but i dont know if i want to what sould i do?

2006-11-24 08:52:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i really like this guy & he is in 7th grade..im in 6th..well we talk to each other @ skool wen we can (which there isnt dat much time) & we talk alot 2 each other on myspace!!! u see one of his close friends thinks dat he likes me but he thinks that he just doesnt want to go out with me cuz im a 6th grader (not that way but cuz we wouldnt see each other that much not in bad way) and one of my friends asked him out w/ out my permission and he said "srry i just dont want a gf rite NOW (no matter who it is ) plus we havent even had a real conversation YET"
now we have had a Real conversation..soOoOo idk wat 2 do????

2006-11-24 08:51:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, when my parents found out that my mom was pregnant, all they hoped for was a male. apperantly, it came out to be a girl [me]. so i was raised liek a male. i have been playing football since i was 2 and basketball since i was 4. so whan i hang out with guys [90% of my friends], they always comment and say that "wow, i've never met a girl like u! ur so ghetto even though ur not black, u know more about sports than most men, and you're so tough!" i hate that, but i cant change who i am, evan though im not what people [males & females] think of what a typical girl should be. how can i change my self without being "girly/girlish"?

2006-11-24 08:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by RAWR! 1 in Friends

2006-11-24 08:50:52 · 7 answers · asked by ily<3 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems like all the guys look at my best friend instead of me. I dont have the best figure and I dress differently than other girls. Only two guys have ever said that I was pretty or beautiful and they asked me out. I said no to both of them because it would be weird to go out with some of my best friends in the world. My best friend says I have such a pretty face and that I should have a bf. But I just cant get guys to notice me no matter what I dress like or say to them. It makes me depressed cuz even though I have friends, I'm still lonely without the companionship of a bf. What can I do?

2006-11-24 08:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by Ducky 3 in Singles & Dating

Idiots leave a response please....


I was looking for a genuine response to the Thread I submitted to the post...


Wait a minute respond with proper answers, I was asking a genuine answer and some of you eejits post responses about something it was a personal question, I can see maturity blossoming from such individuals I making a reference to a question and then got a response on the basis of stupidity, I can spell if I was an idiot I obviously wouldn't be making intellgient sophisticated conversations based in a manner like this in such a formal way, but then again idiots tend to use sophisticated wordings to address points with a valid answer....


When I start on 22k a year by the time a I am 23 thats an idiots wage isn't it lmao....

2006-11-24 08:49:40 · 5 answers · asked by Matthew B 2 in Family

Well I like this guy but I also like his cousin. They both like me. But his cousin doesn't know he likes me but he knows his cousin likes me. When his cousin flirts with me. He tries to stp him. Ireally like them both but I don't know who to chose? I need advise how to pick one.

2006-11-24 08:49:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he calls me and wants to see me but he does not want to get bsck together.he says he does not want a relationship because he does not want to be heart again.How can I persuade him that I can make him happy???

2006-11-24 08:49:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you ever stare at your eyes in the mirror while you masturbate?---- Like omg this one I though was preety flippen funny I mean seriously they only ask the questions for the attention!

I am only interested in women with long, large nipples. Is that immature?
---- Duh its immature what was this guy thinking?

Hi, does anybody feel like some chatting and personal communications?
----This guy wants attention badly its obvious that he cant get anyone out there in real life!

Please help, older woman problems?
So I recently messed around with a girl who is 40 years old. I am 19 years old, I don't want anything more than just an occasional "booty call" if you will. She said that was fine at first, but now I suspect she wants more. Please help me, what should I do?

---------This ones one of my favorites what is this kid thinking I mean the ladys old enough to be his grandma eww old nasty renkily GROSS thats sick you know he had to know what people would say.

What do u think about it

2006-11-24 08:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the gigolo part is just my expression to this man...i had her...i was smart and handsome...gave her all the things she wanted...wre wre in the same primary school until now ( 15 years old next year 16 :D )....she cheated on me..asked her if she was cheating she said that the guy was just hes step-brother in school....not real step bro but fake - fake ....i decided to brake up with the SL*T.....after i saw her going home together with the b*st*rd for the 24 time!!...my frenz wre telling me that she was cheating but i didnt believe them...in th end it was true sob sob....this is a old story . it been 3 months ago i guess.so what should i do now?? new girlfren?? i cant...theyre all different religion and races..OR stay low-key and hang out with ma Bff's

2006-11-24 08:48:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do They Give Elmo One Test-Tickle Or Two Test-Tickles ?

2006-11-24 08:47:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 08:46:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have seperated with my husband for 4 years just simply because he had another woman. I stood up for him for all this years. Supported him financially and mentally. He is an alcoholic.Cheated on me more than one time and I've always came back to him. Always be there for him and tried to understand what he's going through. Now he's been sober for 6 mths and met this girl in the AA meeting where he's been attending for a couple of month.Kicked me out of the house that I'd been paying and Now they live that house too.I'm thinking about take him to court.

2006-11-24 08:45:45 · 14 answers · asked by gingerbread33 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we just started goin out not to long ago and i luv him to death, but i dont feel like im gonna get anything from him! u no what i mean? he's kinda shy, and i dont no what to do? i just feel like he wont give me anything if u no what i mean?

2006-11-24 08:45:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she dont understand that the reason i sleep all day drink milwakee best(40 oz)is because no one will hire a black man with felonies on his record so i just chill&relax sure i live with her i never pick up while shes gone or take her anywhere or do anything 4 her but thats not my job i dont have time to do those things she need to take me back cus i need her money and a place to stay

2006-11-24 08:44:32 · 22 answers · asked by danapllrd 1 in Singles & Dating

If so - how do you know that for sure?

If not - what are you doing about it? Are you worried? Are you trying to fix it? Do you think it is their problem?

2006-11-24 08:44:04 · 11 answers · asked by Alan 7 in Marriage & Divorce

well i have a boyfriend and weve been together for a little bit more then 6 months were both 15 bout 2 b 16!! and he always write me love letters and stuff but latelly in them hes been writting parts were he will be lik "please dnt leave me" lik brake up with him and then in the last one he all lik "i would die without you" and i dont knoe its a little weird beacause hes just like please dont leave me and after he wrote the whole dying thing i dont know?? what does he mean by all that??????????

2006-11-24 08:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by ever_aj_love 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a question earlier and everyone thought I was shallow and self centered to leave a married man with a stroke. First of all I accepted the fact he was married and I never asked for money he voluntered. And the few times I did ask he knew I really needed it. I was'nt taken it in a way to say go shopping with what he worked hard for. And he knew if I could do it on my own I would have. He had to push things out of me when something was wrong. And yes I did sleep with him but not in exchange for money. And yes I know its wrong to date a married man and I need to find a single men. But I don't want to leave him on bad terms it would really hurt him. I need to know how to stay freinds with him without him getting mad at me. The last time I had two jobs and I did not have time for him I tried to break up with him and he was really hurt, he got drunk and my friends at the bar had to take him home and he called me to my cell phone went dead everyday until I made up with him.

2006-11-24 08:42:38 · 1 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Singles & Dating

a woody in the exam room.......One time was having bandage changed on my leg surgery......the nurse came into do it.....she had to know she was rubbing up against my package......

2006-11-24 08:41:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone here besides me feel that in Los Angeles people here are sort of cliquishish...meaning that it's harder to make friends out here..What do you all think...? And what cities are more people more hospitable or non - cliquished?

2006-11-24 08:41:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like to be able to file as "married" on tax return to save money ;)

2006-11-24 08:41:16 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Howdy Peeps,


I wanted to ask you a couple of question about families if you could provide an answer for me then I would be happy.


Firstly I constantly always fall in and out with my mum and dad I tend to do silly things with them like send stupid emails to wind my family up and send to them I work really hard as I live in my own place but its difficult as I love my family and want to make alot of money with my career being my biggest focus, and I strive to apply for jobs and have alot of confidence sometimes to the point of arrogance when people percieve that about my character, I always fall in and out with my mum and dad all the time about stupid stuff thats petty since moving house which daunted me at first now that I am actually living on my own I really take everything with a pinch of salt and have picked up alot of skills from doing that its tiring but is it normal to fall out with your parents all the time ??? even at 21 when you allready have did nearly everything

2006-11-24 08:41:07 · 16 answers · asked by Matthew B 2 in Family

The guy i've been dating for a while now is goin through a tough time with his friends. Three of his friends' marriages are on the verge of a divorce..and now it has him all paranoyed and I keep telling him that you can't compare there relationship to ours. And it feels like there is more on his mind, but he's a very private person. I want to be there for him,but I don't want any of this stress to interfere with our relationship now, so how do I tell him that? i just don't know what to do...HELP!!!

2006-11-24 08:40:20 · 2 answers · asked by sweetpea 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna know a great place to drink and meet and see lot's of girls! But i'm talking about a easy place I've been to far many places in London and the girls seemed to be a bit back off, so tell me a place that I'mma meet lots of them any type. Besides StringFellows hehe

2006-11-24 08:40:01 · 12 answers · asked by Netinho 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl is my best friend, i want to take it further, but i also don't want to lose what we already have. if she says no, does that ruin the friendship too?

2006-11-24 08:39:58 · 19 answers · asked by tuna 2 in Friends

make you extra horny.........I know I am......what about you

2006-11-24 08:38:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my bf have been going out on and of now for the last six months ive herd rumors of him cheating and talking to other girls but i ask him he always says no he doesnt do that ! i believe him he broke up wit me twice before in ways that just made me sick when it happend he would just flat out dump me no reason or any thing ! he just asked me back out 3 days ago and i said yes cause i still have very strong feelings about him its hard not he can be sooo sweet and loving but i just found out he is cheating on me or at least the say its one of the girls he dated while we werent 2 gether is she just jelouse ? what do u think i kinda want to ened it but cant i dont have the heart

2006-11-24 08:38:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I DO NOT WANT IT ALL CHRISTMAS BUT SOMETHING LIKE BULBS AND LITES MIXED OR GET ME YOUR IDEA. THANKS

2006-11-24 08:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by marilyn b 3 in Weddings

i am feeling really bad becasue i lost omeone that i loved they just died but i have moved on i dont miss them as much and i rong for feeling this way or wat help please

2006-11-24 08:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships