i am feeling really bad becasue i lost omeone that i loved they just died but i have moved on i dont miss them as much and i rong for feeling this way or wat help please
2006-11-24 08:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no you should try to move on but always have a place for them in your heart
sry, i hope it works out
2006-11-24 08:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong for feeling how you do. That just means that the grieving you have been doing is less. It's not a bad thing.
You will always love that person and you will remember them always, but you won't always be broken up about their loss the way that you have been. That's normal and healthy, and you should NOT feel guilty because you are healing from your loss quickly.
For some people it takes longer to grieve the loss of someone they loved than others and that's ok, so long as it doesn't lead to a permanent depression.
2006-11-24 08:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by alicesarbonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... as time goes by you will miss this person less and less until you just have memories and not missing them anymore. A very good friend of mine died when I was 17. the last thing he said to me was, "the next time you see me, I'll be dead." and he was right. I use to miss him every minute of the day... Now While, sometimes I miss him, Mostly I just think about what a great guy he was, and how I know one day I'll see him again in heaven. Good luck to you
2006-11-24 08:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will always miss someone, but the pain isn't as bad as in the beginning. It is very normal, and it comes in waves. Sometimes you hardly think about them, and then other days, it hurts more. You are okay, it is fine to heal. Don't mix up your feelings and think that you are a bad person for forgetting. YOu will never forget them! Trust me. And hope everything works out!
2006-11-24 08:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, my brother died last year and it hit my family hard but I was barelly affected. I felt bad for a while, but then i thought that there was no point and that everyone will eventually move on.
people just take things differently
2006-11-24 08:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no it seams really bad but its not (about you moving on) because eventually you want fell so fine about it it will really hit you in the long run
but then again it is good for you to move on
and every once in a while you will start missing them a lot
and i am so so sorry for your loss
2006-11-24 08:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by °The Earth Goddess° 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have accomplished the final step - ACCEPTING! good for you! You are on your way to continue your life in a better way, instead of depressed of a lost love.
2006-11-24 08:40:35 · answer #7 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss--life goes on even though we lose people we love. Time--& God's Grace-- bring healing to our hearts. It's okay to move on with life.
2006-11-24 08:43:37 · answer #8 · answered by wanda3s48 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are wrong. Moving on is just a part of life. Don't beat yourself up about this. You are fine. You can't grieve forever.
2006-11-24 08:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think tht you should try to move on...it might be hard i know but you can always keep a place for them in your heart....and idk i hope it works out for u
2006-11-24 08:45:04 · answer #10 · answered by hehehehe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋