Family & Relationships - 24 November 2006

How do i makeout?

i would just like some tips, suggestions, ideas, or instruction....
really anything will be a bit helpful
ive never frenched just a simple kiss but i really want to take it further with my bf but i dont want it to be...im at a loss of words rit now...i guess i mean like trashy...i wan it to be true and sincere...

2006-11-24 09:20:57 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello,

My name is Lisa and i am a student at New York University.

I am majoring in Psychology and i am conducting a study on what the "perfect" young female would be these days (teenage)

I liked the idea of posting the photos on here, because it is simple and i won't be get responses from just young guys.

I have three photos used with permission, All you need to do it "point out" the imperfections you see in these girls, they choose to participate and none of your responses will be show to either girls.

Examples of responses: Her nose is to big, her hair is ugly, she is too tan. etc.

Thank you for your participation!

The links to the photos are as follows

Girl one - http://i9.tinypic.com/2iiafe9.jpg.........

Girl two (both links are the same girl)- http://i7.tinypic.com/40218b4.jpg......... & http://i15.tinypic.com/48fn6yr.jpg.........

Thank you again & happy holidays!

2006-11-24 09:20:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im going to just fight my greatest fears and ask mimi out

2006-11-24 09:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by thoughtfuljon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like the fact that it gives him pleasure, and that is why I do it. I've never liked someone so much, so I've always hated giving head... until him. I've let him come in my mouth for the sake of saving ourselves of messy sheets to deal with afterward, but I'm afraid to swallow. I feel like he's going to think I'm a slut, and since I've said before that quote, "I would NEVER want to swallow," I almost feel like I NEED to keep my word. I really thought about swallowing last time, until something told me I shouldn't. I don't mind at this point, but I'm afraid of what he is going to think. So all of you fellas out there, what if you were my man and your girl swallowed all of a sudden when she had said that she "doesn't like giving head and doesn't want to swallow" before?

2006-11-24 09:20:21 · 25 answers · asked by ohsoconfused 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok...how can I become a more outgoing person????

2006-11-24 09:19:53 · 21 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, well, my bf was talking to me and my friend, and he said
'friend(her name is anonymous) i love you'. and then he said, oh my goodness Elon, i made a mistake! i meant to say i love you Elon.

then when we were talking again he said, i want to fvck you 'friend', I mean! Elon.

is he hinting that he likes my friend or is he making carless mistakes?

2006-11-24 09:19:03 · 10 answers · asked by ipodlady231 7 in Friends

my best friend who never meet me since 3 months ago sent me messages that pursue me to meet her. She said, "i miss you, we've never talk in such a long time, i have so many things to talk about". Then, when the day came, me and my another best friend met her and she took her boy with her. and we didn't talk about 'so many things she wants to talk about', we don't chat or even joking cos she was to busy with her boyfriend. I got angry because of it. Am i right or i'm over reacting?

2006-11-24 09:19:02 · 12 answers · asked by me 2 in Friends

hey guys what would u do if a 13 year old girl u didnt know came up and asked for a hug lol me and my friend sheri did this but only to like 16 17 17 year old mabe a few hot 20 year olds lol

2006-11-24 09:18:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we r both 17 y/o. i rly like ths girl and we'v knwn eachother fr 2mnths. most of the time tht shes wntd to go out w/ me, shes the 1 tht askd. she also invited me 2 her bro's prty so tht "she hd sum1 2 talk 2". once she invitd herself to my house and wen i askd if she wantd to go to her hous insted she said der wud be ppl der nd we wn't be alone. we go to diff skools i askd her 2 my skool dance she sed yes. but b4 we knew eachother she askd sum1 else 2 her skool dance thn she told me tht she wud uninvite the other guy to take me, but she jst cant do it cos dey r frens. thn i got upset bcos she canceld goin to my hous bcos she hd 2 stay home she did dis twice, both times she invited herself. nthins hapend btween us so far we're not bf/gf. thn i told her i like her mor thn frend. she calld me nd sed she ddnt like me like tht. she also felt pressurd cos i alwys wnt her 2 b der wen i call and tht she alwys has 2 set meetups 4us. last time we tokd she ddnt sound like she wntd 2b frens nemor.

2006-11-24 09:18:19 · 2 answers · asked by jakey d 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend made out a week ago and now he wants to do it again but i kind of dont want to! HELP!!

2006-11-24 09:18:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this instructor who works at the local gym, Whenever i go there, he always chats to me for about 45 mins to an hour on a one to one about all kinds of stuff, he always asks me to go in when he is working, he tells me the times of when he was working and asks me to go in and see him. He came into the gym looking for me once too. He has given me compliments and also walked me to my car the once, and I never notice him talking to any other girls! He has a girlfriend but has recently split with her, and he told my friend that he doesnt want to lead me on, so now I'm really confused, it really seemed like he liked me, could it be it's too soon for him? do you think he likes me at all?

2006-11-24 09:18:09 · 12 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

so, i introduced my two best friends in the world and i thought they would get along great. i was wrong. they started giving each other dirty looks. now thay talk trash about the other to me. i still want to be best friends with both but what do i do when they act this way? i try to tell them the other is nice and that they should not trash talk the other when they barely know the other. but they aren't listening.
what do i do? help me!!!

2006-11-24 09:18:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how can i get my bf to marry me?
we've talked about it before but he wants to wait until he's at least out of college if not both of us. we're both 19 and have been dating for almost four years. i can't help but feel like he just doesn't want to marry me because he's not sure i'm "the one". i know it'd be hard but other couples are able to do it so why can't we? and i know that the marriage might not work out but i'd rather be married to him for a year then not ever be married to him. if you think i'm making a mistake in thinking this way then please explain that to me in a nice respectful manner. thanks!

2006-11-24 09:18:04 · 7 answers · asked by yo 2 in Singles & Dating

Right I am gonna settle the score once and for all I expressed views on a thread previously that weren't threatening and were personal to have a response and if this logged, you can monitor the expressions by the mode of how these are expressed, firstly I know I have the potential to start on a high starting salary, I also stated I have a flat, which I can rightfully buy into my morgage for.


As I took a test online and based on the responses of the test it stated that the results were jobs were astounding and have a rightful expression to give my answers as I am entitled to give my answers based on my views as long as their not threatening, or harassing by nature deemed under the rights and responsibility factors associated with the use of this site, I now am going to say how much of these specified seven occupations start on alone, Engineers, Lawyers, Database Administrator Intelligience Anlayst Actor, Accountant, and Finicial Analyst, now how much do they earn??

2006-11-24 09:17:59 · 12 answers · asked by Matthew B 2 in Family

My girlfriend and i had been talking about marriage for the last 6 monthes or so (her idea). I know she really loves me and i really love her but two weeks ago i asked her to marry me very romantic and she was so happy instantly calling and texting everyone she knew. Since then I have noticed her acting a little different maybe a little scared i wasn't sure so asked her what's bothering her and she says she's not sure if she is ready which to me is weird because in the last 2 weeks she found the place she wants to get married, registered at the bridal shop, picked out her brides maids dresses, and has been going through magazines for a tux for me. i talk to her about this and she says she is in love with me and hasn't fallen out of love with me but now doesn't know if we should be together at all she said she is worried that there might be someone else out there for her. I really don't know what to think or say if she loves me whats the problem? i dont wanna lose her i love her a lot

2006-11-24 09:16:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I liked this boy and even now I think of him , I saw him and started smiling , I felt he liked it too, I use to look and smile at him, one day I had to go away for a while we have never talked, anyway I came back and he was ever so angry , anytime I looked at him , one it was dark and my brother was on this bike , and he thought I was with some boy , and when he saw me , he became even more angry, so oneday I got angry with him, and stopped paying attention to him ,he realised I was single and that he was wrong , I looked at him , and he rode a bike for me outside my house , I ignored him because I felt he is playing games with me , because my sister has told me that he looks at her and she married and he woulnd't look at her if he likes me, I felt that after I have been ignoreing him he has taken it quite bad , epseacilly when I ignored him when he rode the bike for me, I saw him today after a long time, and he was wearing messy clothes and went into a music shop , he has always been

2006-11-24 09:16:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

OK so heres whats happening, Well my boy friend said that he was going out to study with the guys, But, instead i caught him at the movies kissing my best friend. Now, i don't know if i should still be her friend i meen because like she has always been there for me whenever i needed her the most.I don't know if my boyfrend was using me to get near her or if my best friend is using me to get him please help!

2006-11-24 09:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by :-* <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Me & my bf have a child together, but he takes me for an absolute fool most of the time( owns a night club, stays out all night, takes coke, never compliments me... the list goes on!). My confidence has been pretty low and I'm also a bit scared of being on my own with a child ( though I'm a great mum!)
Today, someone( a guy i don't really know) said to me " you are worth so much more than that - you should listen to Beyonce, Irreplaceble and listen 2 the lyrics" I've not stopped listening 2 it since I came home and the power of music is AMAZING! I feel stronger and more confident already. Does anyone have anymore appropiate songs for my situation ( but not the obvious, cheesy "I will survive" types, something bit more up to date - lol):-)
Look forward to listening to your reccomendations and do something about my life, thx :-)

2006-11-24 09:14:35 · 23 answers · asked by Petaloutha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-24 09:13:26 · 35 answers · asked by Ms. Jacksonville, FL 3 in Singles & Dating

are there a lot of good deals around xmas and/or valentines day? is one time better than other to buy? i was gonna wait till about april to propose but if theyre substantially cheaper around holiday seasons i might buy one now

2006-11-24 09:12:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so my girlfriend and I have been dating for about three months, but talking for about a year. She ironically asked me out the first week i went to go visit her at school.

Recently i haven't been able to visit its been six weeks. while we spoke on the phone she would constantly speak of a boy that lived on the floor below her. Then one day I had heard enough of this kid i asked her if she had a crush on him.

She said she did for a little bit of time, but then felt guilty for this and changed her mind. I appericated her honesty but was still hurt. She told me the reason why the crush happened was because i wasn't around. I didn't feel that was a valid reason. B/c i am in the same situation i don't have a crush on anyone.

I don't know what to do at all. i need help asap!

PS this is her first real relationship, she is home now for thanksgiving but what about when she goes back to school?
PPS she tells me she loves me

2006-11-24 09:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by Brian A 2 in Singles & Dating

I basically then must be an effective communicator when I can display words like this in a way of conversational manner's that can deploy as complex as such and can analyse and provide the most complex solutions to the most complex of situations and provide the right response in an analytical manner.


I can spell and negotiate with someone based on tact, and again if I decided to explore the possible avenue or routes to be a lawyer again if I aspired to study and work hard to get to that level then I probably could see myself starting on a salary of 34, alone without practising a little touch of jealousy seems to display their when the conclusions based on my threads by people that have their views based on opinion can contribute un neccesary and invalid points, but then again 25k a year by the time I am 22 sounds appealing who wouldn't want to climb the corporate ladder to make a starting wage like that... but again I suppose thats just a starting salary alone...

2006-11-24 09:10:25 · 12 answers · asked by Matthew B 2 in Family

My friend and i go to school together, hes in 8th and im in 7th, were both were going to go into professional wrestling together and now hes talking about god and saying how wrestling might not b the path god has chosen for him and saying a lot of stuff about god this and god that. what is with my friend? wat do i do, help..plz i need help fast

2006-11-24 09:10:12 · 2 answers · asked by flameflyer90 1 in Friends

My fella and I have different social circles.I work in the porn industry and he works at a skip.Now he as gone out with his scummy mates and left me indoors(yet again)so he can take coke and get wasted.I pulled him up and said I was not happy but he retorted "You accuse me every tiime anyway so I don,t care anymore".Been together 2 and a half years.am I going mental or is he taking the p***?

2006-11-24 09:10:02 · 13 answers · asked by snuffylover4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well I like this guy but I also like his cousin. They both like me. But his cousin doesn't know he likes me but he knows his cousin likes me. When his cousin flirts with me. He tries to stp him. Ireally like them both. I see them both almost everyday. I am best friends with both of thier sisters so I go over to their houses alot so i know them very well.

In a way their like my best friends too. I mean we hang out without anyone else.But I like them alot and I try so hard not to But I do anyway. How do I chose one? or How do I stop liking them both? I don't want to ruin the relationship between them and all of us.

2006-11-24 09:09:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw a commercial with Dr. Oz on it. He said for every 35 lbs a man loses he gains an inch in his manhood. If I lose down to 40 lbs I can have 10 inches. Any woman interested in a 40 lb man with 10 inches?......and if you don't like the question, don't answer it.

2006-11-24 09:09:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met a guy thats in the navy and when he comes home i'm just a booty call but he also treats me as a friend.

2006-11-24 09:08:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I Love this guy & he cheated on me twice. first time, i let it go. 2nd time, i slapped him & left him(dumped him)!!! but my weakness is that i still talk to him on the phone & i still love him- little words, i can't be without him! =[ what should i do???

2006-11-24 09:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well I am 14 and I am having a baby in 5 mnts the boy of the father lives were I used to back in Idaho I am in Arizona right now were giving the baby up for adoption but not to anyone his grandma and aunt in Idaho right in town do you think it is too much to ask of the grandma and aunt if I stay there with the baby as in live I believe they will go for it they really like me I am glad I am doing this they say it's going to be the light of their lives and are very excited and ye know me and him can't do it. How do I approch my mom with this who I live with now how do I tell her I am giving it to his grandma and aunt and I am going to live up there when she wants me here and the baby I know the other way is much better how should I tell her?

2006-11-24 09:07:01 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Guys - Here's a good Friday Night question (think about this when you go out later). Is it REALLY worth it to buy a woman a drink? Sure, you may get a cell phone number (but, then again, if you call her, she'll probably see your name on caller ID, let it go to voicemail, and never return your message!). More likely, you'll get a "thank you" and she'll go back to her friends without the decency of even talking to you for a couple of minutes. And, in New York City, drinks are expensive - depending where you go a martini or a cosmo could cost $ 12 dollars or more. So, is it really worth it to buy a woman a drink?

2006-11-24 09:06:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating