I Love this guy & he cheated on me twice. first time, i let it go. 2nd time, i slapped him & left him(dumped him)!!! but my weakness is that i still talk to him on the phone & i still love him- little words, i can't be without him! =[ what should i do???
2006-11-24 09:07:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww honey its okay!! Feeling like this is perfectly normal but cheating twice?? I would say take him back if this was his first offense but honestly I dont even know the guy and know that he will cheat again..I'm sure you still care about him and have feelings for him but if he cared for you the way you care for him then he wouldn't have done the things that he did!! You can do better and he will be feeling ALOT worse than you when you move on and know that life can go on without him...I've learned the hard way and always forgave but now I have a baby and what started off with a little cheating to ALOT he didn't stop and would try to lie after a night of romance and come home to his daughter and me..Leave before it becomes something more..A promise just cant be believed anymore..Good luck hun and hang in there..Time heals everything :)
2006-11-24 09:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously you don't like him cheating and he continues to cheat you just have to ask yourself is he worth the pain he causes? The reason why its so hard for you to let go is because you do still talk to him on the phone and hear his voice just remember that love doesn't make it right.
2006-11-24 09:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him go...forever...He already cheated u twice...it is very possible that there will be the third time...It may now be hard for u to forget him, but as time passes, the feeling won't be as deep, and u'll be able to forget him. Remember, there're still other better guys out there.
2006-11-24 09:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by lleyton.liverpool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Fool me once shame on you.. fool me twice shame on me". Yes, you CAN be without him. He already knows he got away with it two times.. why not three... or four? Good luck in your decision (and only you can decide) but if I were you I'd dump him for good and let him do the regretting rather than you.
2006-11-24 09:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him wish he never should of cheated on you! Make him want you back so bad that he begs you to go out with you.
2006-11-24 09:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by HersheyBar2011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him back,being a cheater myself,he won"t leave u he just likes sleeping with other girls,as long as he treats u good that"s all that matters!
2006-11-24 09:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by DoingItRight! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh
well it sounds like a horrible situation......ouccch
even tho its hard i would try all my best to let go
he cheated...[[CHEATED]]
thats not somebody thats worth your time.....maybe you could b like good friends but dont get involved into a realtionship with him
2006-11-24 09:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by hehehehe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to still talk to him but i wouldn't take him back and just learn to be friends maybe its better to be friends.
2006-11-24 09:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋