Me and my boyfriend made out a week ago and now he wants to do it again but i kind of dont want to! HELP!!
2006-11-24 09:18:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You simply tell him that you don't want to do that...you are under no obligation to make out with anyone...don't do anything in a relationship that you don't want to do...hopefully he'll be kewl with that...if not, then he's not the guy you should be dating...
2006-11-24 09:20:09 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By made out I am assuming you did not go all the way. Was he bad at kissing or caressing you? If so, I am sorry for your experience. However, you do not have to repeat it. Tell him that making out made you very uncomfortable and that you would not like to do it again anytime soon. He should be understanding.
2006-11-24 17:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if u like ur boyfriend u would be attracted to make out again unless his mouth smells- is it a serious relationship?? if not u cud maybe end up wit him-just suggesting-gud lukxx
2006-11-24 17:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by heheha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never allow someone to talk you into doing something you dont want to.
Tell him you are not ready for that kind of relationship. If he doesnt accept how you feel about this then dump him.
2006-11-24 17:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by kate d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you just arent ready for regular sex. if he doesnt understand this is your wish, then he isnt the guy for you, as he only wants your body to make him happy, and not you to be happy in general.
guys can get pushy, but stand your ground, or you will live a life as slave to other peoples wants, by neglecting your own.
2006-11-24 17:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell that you don't want to any more. If he doesn't respect that and goes on to try to get you to do it any way. Ditch the loser, because he will never respect anything you want to do.
2006-11-24 17:21:25 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that . If he excepts that then you have a relationship worth having , if he gives you grief , then you know the true reason he is with you.
2006-11-24 17:20:41 · answer #7 · answered by lepluver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him no. If he doesn't understand or tries to pressure you consider breaking up with him. If he forces you this is a form of abuse get help!!
2006-11-24 17:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be like..."no". No really, if you don't feel comfortable just be like let's take it slow. Or meet him half way and just kiss him quick. If it's something like he's a crappy kisser, tell him to let YOU kiss HIM and show him what you like.
2006-11-24 17:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Abcdefg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him he is awful at making out and that you need something better...he will cry so make sure you have a box of tissues. Also,let him know that it is not him that it is you who needs more.
2006-11-24 17:19:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋