OK so heres whats happening, Well my boy friend said that he was going out to study with the guys, But, instead i caught him at the movies kissing my best friend. Now, i don't know if i should still be her friend i meen because like she has always been there for me whenever i needed her the most.I don't know if my boyfrend was using me to get near her or if my best friend is using me to get him please help!
2006-11-24 09:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by :-* <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should f*uck them both up. Neither one of them are good for you. If she is supposed to be your bestfriend then she wouldn't have done that behind your back, what am I saying she wouldn't have done it at all. She was being there for you. She was only looking out for herself. If he ever really liked you then he wouldn't have done that or lied to you period. I would F*CK them both up. You should never ever go near either one of them again. Avoid them like the plague at all costs. Pretend they have lepracy and it will kill you if you get near them. I don't care what you have to do but stay away from them both. Don't try to get revenge on either of them because Karma will get them for what they did. You reap what you sow. They will have to answer to God for what they did to you. The best thing I can say is just find a real friend and a boyfriend that deserves you and your trust. That girl should have been thinking Chicks before ***** like I always think Bros before Hoes when my friends girl has came onto me before. That is the golden rule in friendship for both sexes. You have been a victim of two sleezebags. Keeping either one of their company around you will cause you to become a bad person sooner or later. Hope these things help, but I already know the desicion you will make if you are smart. Good luck with life and leaving those two behind. Later....L.G.
2006-11-24 09:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are right about two things: he was using you to get your best friend and she was using you to get to him...So is that it? Do you really need a reasonable reason to dump him? What's really stopping you? Do you still like him? Do you still want to be friends with her? Asking yourself these questions won't solve anything. The best thing for you to do is go far away from them. Sometimes, it's best to let go of the negative people in your life to be able to move forward. If you don't then the only one left in the end hurting is probably going to be you. Good luck.
2006-11-24 09:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now, your boyfriend obviously likes your friend. He might have been using you but I highly doubt it. If he wanted to get close to your friend, he would've asked her out in the first place. He has liked you before. As for your friend, she may have been your friend in the past, but it doesn't sound like it now! If I were you, I would tell them both that you are through with them and that they are too immature to handle dating. Tell them to get lost! It may or may not make you feel better, but it's the right thing to do. It's the harsh truth, whether you want to deal with it or not.
2006-11-24 09:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by pinknblacksox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be too upset with her, you should really be upset with the guy because its mostly the guys who do this type of thing....
Get rid of your so called boyfriend and just talk about the situation with your best friend....Just make sure that you tell her that the next boyfriend that you get, you would appreciate if she did not do anything with him and if she is any type of a friend then she would listen
2006-11-24 09:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Peer presser? Sounds painful!
2006-11-24 09:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is not your friend anymore. I would get rid of both those idiots fast. In fact, you could just turn the tables on her and spread rumors about how she's a man stealer and he's unfaithful. See if you can't ruin her for what she's done.
2006-11-24 09:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by cyber_music 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O man... That is jacked up. They are both terrible people and BAD KHARMA will follow them the majority of their lives. Stop being friends with her... cant be friends with a backstabber, and DONT take him back... Cant date a cheater! Move on to better things!
2006-11-24 09:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
She is NOT your friend. If she knew you were dating him then there is absolutley NO excuse. Make sure your friend and your boyfriend know you saw them and don't let them get away with cheating. If I were you I would dump your boyfriend and leave your friend for someone who won't kiss your boyfreind!!
2006-11-24 09:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need either of them. If they're going to betray your relationship with them to be with each other than you don't need either of them. They're are to many people out there so surround your-self by those you can trust. Other wise you will always be worried that they will betray you. And no one should bring themselves down like that.
2006-11-24 09:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by akira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch I feel for you. You need new a new best friend and boy friend. Thats all I can say.
2006-11-24 09:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋