Well I like this guy but I also like his cousin. They both like me. But his cousin doesn't know he likes me but he knows his cousin likes me. When his cousin flirts with me. He tries to stp him. Ireally like them both. I see them both almost everyday. I am best friends with both of thier sisters so I go over to their houses alot so i know them very well.
In a way their like my best friends too. I mean we hang out without anyone else.But I like them alot and I try so hard not to But I do anyway. How do I chose one? or How do I stop liking them both? I don't want to ruin the relationship between them and all of us.
2006-11-24 09:09:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this really is a dillema. uhm. i guess there really isnt a way to solve this. sorry. and i know its not wat u wanna hear. but, unless you like one more than the other, your decsision is damn near impossible. And even if you do choose one, you friendship with the other will be kinda awkward, and possible ruined forever. Best advice I can give is just choose the person who asks you first, then if the other person gets mad and shhit, just be like "Well he asked me, you didn't". Its a fail proof plann.
lol. im not sure if this helps a lot.
Good Luck -
2006-11-24 09:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anna.R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u're not sure which one to choose, don't make your choice now. As time passes, maybe u could find out which one is the right person for u. So, for the time being, keep ur relationship as it is now...this maybe the best decision u could make now...being best friends is a very good too...u know, it's hard to find best friends, and as u've found them, don't let it go...try not to ruin this friendship...the position u're in now may be hard, but this is the best at the moment...
2006-11-24 17:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by lleyton.liverpool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are with one of them get in touch with your feelings at the time and concentrate on how you feel inside about the guy. Do the same with the other guy. I think you will find that you feel stronger when you are with one rather than the other. Listen to your heart and don't try to think things out mentally. Once you get home after being with both of them think about how each one made you feel and go with the feelings that are the strongest.
2006-11-24 17:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, I think you should respect the friend relations between all three of you. If you date either of them, you are going to cause problems between the two guys, and one of them is going to be mad at you, as well as, if it doesn't work out, the one you were dating is going to be hurt while the one you didn't date is gonna be upset because you didn't pick him and everyone is going to be broken up. Choose to accept that the friendships are worth holding on to and keeping the friendship between the two of them is just as important. Friends are golden.
2006-11-24 17:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by woopykat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go on a secret date with both of them....and after the date you might look back on it and choose the guy you had the most fun with...if you had fun on both of them then check if their were any awkward moments
2006-11-24 17:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually - I would not go out with either of them - since
you cannot decide. So just don´t and stay best friends.
Look for your "prince" somewhere else.
2006-11-24 17:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by rgarlik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the better looking one...Whatever one that you choose the other one will get over it sooner or later..you can't date both or that would be just SICK!!
2006-11-24 17:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well u ant have both guys so u just have to choose which one you like more or go with the one that likes u
2006-11-24 17:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them that u really like them both but u dont want 2 hurt ne 1s feelings.
2006-11-24 17:16:02 · answer #9 · answered by alexa h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one, but you can stay friends with all of them and see how it goes. maybe you will be more than friends down the road with one of them.
2006-11-24 17:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by wildfire224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋