how do u stop loving some one ?

Question

me and my bf have been going out on and of now for the last six months ive herd rumors of him cheating and talking to other girls but i ask him he always says no he doesnt do that ! i believe him he broke up wit me twice before in ways that just made me sick when it happend he would just flat out dump me no reason or any thing ! he just asked me back out 3 days ago and i said yes cause i still have very strong feelings about him its hard not he can be sooo sweet and loving but i just found out he is cheating on me or at least the say its one of the girls he dated while we werent 2 gether is she just jelouse ? what do u think i kinda want to ened it but cant i dont have the heart

Answer 1

Yeah, don't end it after all he is worth risking getting HIV from with all those girls he is doing.

Answer 2

I'm sorry my dear but you are going have to find that heart and end this, because its not a good relationship. If he just dump you for no reasons at all and then three days later want you back.
That is NOT what a relationship all about. It's about trust, loving, caring, about the person with thier dreams and goals in life.
Be brave little one and let this one go. Please.
It'll hurts at first for a very long time,but believe me you will gets through it even when you thinks your heart is about to be torn apart just remember of the reason why you are doing this. (all those bad times in the relationship.) I wish you strong good value of yourself family and good dear friends.Learn from this so in the future there is no more bad guy. Look for the good ones and they are out there. Don't give up. Good luck! :-) hug and a kiss for you.

Answer 3

Love is a matter of the heart. You can't stop loving someone overnight. Since you know he is cheating on you the best thing you can do is to dump him no matter what he tells you. Yes, it will be hard because you have strong feelings for him. No matter how sweet he is he is still two-timing you. He is not dedicated to you and he is not trustworthy as far as you are concerned. He will continue to see other girls despite you. Do you want this kind of guy? You will continue to be disappointed and eventually hurt very deeply if not already. Tell him it is over and let him go. If you can't let him go then tell him you wnt him to stop seeing other girls and commit himself to you. If he can't do this then tell him you are going to dump him.

Answer 4

Sounds as if he has your heart already. Because of the strong feelings u have for him your probably going to do want you shouldn't anyways. And that's to go back with him. But after he hurts u enough you'll start to be stronger where he's concerned and might even dump him someday. In regard to your question
about how to stop loving someone??? We'd all be better off if we knew the answer to that one. Good question, and good luck,

Answer 5

Well first of all anything that bothers you or hurts you emotionally isnt healthy . If your his girlfriend and you know that he is cheatin on u and you still go out wit him, that means you dont care that he is cheatin on u. But then again sometimes RUMORS arent true and u shouldnt believe them but if u kno for a fact that he is cheatin on u should stop goin out with him. Because if your old enough to have a boyfriend you are old enough to make smart choices about love. And if u "kinda want to end it" like u said then that means you already taken the first step in figurin out WHAT U WANT.
So do wut u want to, Your choices and make sure its something is true before u do it also. Goodluck

Answer 6

I have had the same thing happen to me i go back to the guy every time and each time i get hurt eventually i just said enough was enough even though it hurt so bad it was just something i had to do if u have ne thought that u want to end it then u definetly should it may take a while but u will slowly get over him

Answer 7

You don't have the heart to stop seeing someone you've only been back with for 3 days, and who as dumped you for "no reason" in the past? Do you really think you need a guy in your life so badly that you'll settle for one who obviously isn't all that in to you?

However much you may think you care for him...or are infatuated with him...he's sure not doing a good job of even faking reciprocation...

Answer 8

well, that is a really hard question to answer, i mean it just is? i have a boyfriend rite now and i still kinda love one of my ex's but my b/f doesnt no it and my ex doesnt no it? so, i dont really no how to explain it, i guess, if u love someone u love someone and that's all there is to it! im sorry but from what i've experienced, there is no thing as an end to love? if u really love the person, u will work things out and stick w/ them, that is what i have gathered??? good luck!

Answer 9

you probably shouldn't believe the other girls unless they have proof. because you don't want to end something special unless you know for sure that he's cheating on you. i know how it feels beacause im going out with someone and one of my bestfriends said some things that I dont think is true because I dont have proof. So I think you should go on with it if you want to, but dont get too attached because those things might be true.

Answer 10

It sounds like he's two faced and not worth your affections. How can he love you back if he can do things that he knows hurt you so badly?

The way I get over strong feelings for people is to repeat over and over "I'm better off without him. better off without him. better off without him."

It's a rough couple of weeks or months, but you really don't want to rope yourself into a one sided relationship where you're the only one who genuinely cares about the others feelings, do you? It's like signing up to stab yourself in the eyeball with a spoon for all of eternity. Gotta get over it sometime, sooner is better than later.

Answer 11

He doesnt respect you. Why dont you just dump! Ignore him for a while, basically give him a good lesson, if he really likes you he will go to great depts just to get you back. Good luck!!!