I have seperated with my husband for 4 years just simply because he had another woman. I stood up for him for all this years. Supported him financially and mentally. He is an alcoholic.Cheated on me more than one time and I've always came back to him. Always be there for him and tried to understand what he's going through. Now he's been sober for 6 mths and met this girl in the AA meeting where he's been attending for a couple of month.Kicked me out of the house that I'd been paying and Now they live that house too.I'm thinking about take him to court.
2006-11-24 08:45:45 · 14 answers · asked by gingerbread33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should take him to court. Make sure you get what's fair, for you.
You'll be glad to let him be someone else's problem, after a while. It'll get easier.
2006-11-24 08:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by babyitsyou31 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men are the way they are because women let them.You knew your man was a loser a long time ago and you put up with it.If women would dump men the second they found out the man was a loser men would change.
Women need to quit falling in love with the thought of being in love.True love is out there if you just wait.
Having 2 or 3 kids with a loser and then finding a nice guy you wouldn't have anything to do with before isn't fair either.Your bad boy will only get worse.Then the good guy has to deal with your kids and your past.That's why so many 2nd marriages fail.
2006-11-24 09:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by oneidmnstr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no matter what you do it is too late. how could you have stayed for so long with a man that has been treating you so bad? my friend dont be decieved love is not blind. from your story he;s been showing you signs that it will not work but instead of working away you remained blind. ladies, dont try to force yourself on any man. if a man doesnt love you there is nothing you can do to change it, believe me. a lady can love anything but it is difficult for a man to love a lady. men naturally find it very difficult to decide to love a lady. this is the reason most men love ladies because of their physical appearance. if you take him to court i dont think you will gain anything from that though you might feel you have retaliated. my advice is you learn and make sure your kids, female friends and relatives dont fall victims to such wicked act. also try and be closer to christ and you will find all you need in life. ogbogari@yahoo.com
2006-11-24 09:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by favourprosperity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just guys... my guy friends and myself in the past are(were) in the same situation as you, without the alcohol(they actually will do it conscious and sober).
This will sound much easier than said: Let him leave and never speak another word to him. Just move on. There's nothing else you can do. Good luck and I wish you the best.
2006-11-24 08:53:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you stupid? You marry a scumbag and then wonder why he mistreats you? You specifically chose the type of man who does this and rejected the vast majority of normal men in order to do it. You are damn lucky you don't have kids with him.
Look. Stop being an idiot. You are surrounded by men who aren't like this. Many of them want to be with you. You really have to work to end up with a bad one in this country. Go be with one of them and stop being there for evil men.
2006-11-24 08:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to court he has no right to treat you that way and to kick you out of the home you've been paying for.
2006-11-24 08:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The alcoholic husband, and your actions may be a signal that you have co-dependency disorder. You should seek professional help for the disorder and get your life together.
2006-11-24 08:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Cabo 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hire an attorney and go for the house and a divorce.
2006-11-24 09:43:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has never respected you. You must get that by now.
Check out your legal rights and I wish you would be as kind to yourself as you have been all these years to your husband.
2006-11-24 08:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He makes me look like a winner.
2006-11-24 09:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋