well i have a boyfriend and weve been together for a little bit more then 6 months were both 15 bout 2 b 16!! and he always write me love letters and stuff but latelly in them hes been writting parts were he will be lik "please dnt leave me" lik brake up with him and then in the last one he all lik "i would die without you" and i dont knoe its a little weird beacause hes just like please dont leave me and after he wrote the whole dying thing i dont know?? what does he mean by all that??????????
2006-11-24 08:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by ever_aj_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like insecurities to me. Either he is seeking attention or he is truly concerned and wants reasurance that you are planning on sticking around for awhile. Be carefull though, I don't know him and he may not be all there.
2006-11-24 08:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by Silver Surfer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definitely getting paranoid about your relationship! Have you talked to him about the notes? At 15 you both still have some hormones that are wreaking havoc with the normal thought process. Literally, you are facing adulthood while still adolescent. This is not easy, but then obviously it's not impossible either.
Get together with him and let him know you don't plan on going anywhere just yet, and also that you don't need him to be sending you notes with scary little weird messages.
2006-11-24 09:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Nuk.Nuk.Nuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he thinks you want to hear that.. They say alot of that crap in movies, and he has probably seen a movie where someone said that, and the girl loved it. So hes thinking if he says it to you, you will feel the same way. Tell him you dont like that, but you LOVE the letters. Ill bet he backs it up a notch. Good luck
2006-11-24 08:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation when I was around your age. My boyfriend told me he was going to kill himself because his life was awful. He called me one day and told me that he had a gun and was getting ready to do it. I flipped out, I didn't know what to do, we talked for a long time and he decided not to...but after that he kept telling me that I was the only reason he was alive, and that if I ever left him he would have nothing in his life to live for...before that I had decided I was going to break up with him but after i couldn't do it. All I could think was that he would actually go through with it if I left him. In the end I was so worried and nervous that my grades fell and I couldn't sleep. I didn't know who to talk to, I didn't want anyone to know. I finally broke up with him and he didn't try to kill himself, but he did stalk me for a few years on and off.
Now that i look back I know that I should have talked to the school counselor or his mom so that they could have gotten him help. You are too young to have to worry about being with someone like that. Talk to him about it and tell him that you are worried about him and that you want to know if that's how he really feels. If he really feels tat way then you need to get him help, now...before he does something awful.
If you want to talk about this more, please feel free to email me.
2006-11-24 08:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no need to worry. when someone is in love or lust with the another they tend to express their feeling a bit over board and write things like that. what you need to do is tell him that you are not going to break up with him, that things are going well right now with yous, that you think its cute that hes writing you love letters and expressing his feelings but you dont want him to write anything more about how hes going to die if we ever broke up, tell him you dont want him to think about things like that and foucs on the present not the future. I am sure he will stop writing you about that, and things will get better, he just thinks that it was a good way to express himself and that thing like that is what girls want to hear. Its nothing serious, but like i said its best to tell him to take it down a notch because you really dont like hearing things like that.
2006-11-24 08:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 12:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just being a bit over dramatic, but if he is upsetting you with this TELL HIM otherwise it might go on and wreck your relationship.
2006-11-24 08:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some jackass said that to me too. They just say it to be dramatic don't worry bout it much.
2006-11-24 08:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just likes you very much I think
I was like that about somebody when I was your age
She left. I didn't die. I still think about her sometimes though.
2006-11-24 08:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to his parents and see how he acts at home, he might need to see a shrink or a doctor.ASAP!!
2006-11-24 08:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋