It seems like all the guys look at my best friend instead of me. I dont have the best figure and I dress differently than other girls. Only two guys have ever said that I was pretty or beautiful and they asked me out. I said no to both of them because it would be weird to go out with some of my best friends in the world. My best friend says I have such a pretty face and that I should have a bf. But I just cant get guys to notice me no matter what I dress like or say to them. It makes me depressed cuz even though I have friends, I'm still lonely without the companionship of a bf. What can I do?
2006-11-24 08:49:54 · 11 answers · asked by Ducky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think your beautiful and i would love it if you went out with me
2006-11-24 08:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, that was my story all through high school. I went away to college and ended up dating my best friend at the end of our freshman year- and we're still dating almost 4 years later. Dating best friends isn't' such a bad thing.
On the other hand, the companionship of a boyfriend isn't everything. Stay true to your girl friends and make sure to always have time for them. I know your heart longs for a boyfriend but settling for the wrong guy or a bad boyfriend will make you miserable. So don't settle for less and know that you deserve only the best! But of course- the best isn't always the most obvious and it's not always what you had in mind for yourself. Life is always a surprise... be open to the adventure!
2006-11-24 17:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by songbird22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHO CARES!!! You have family and friends and that is all that matters. There is no such thing as a BAD figure or BAD fashion sense because different doesn't mean bad. Insecurity's are just white lies inside of you trying to bring you down but don't give up because there are thousands of people like you who feel the same way! P.S- Who ever said that guys have to ask out girls. If you like a guy, ask him out because you never know who notices you and just doesn't have the courage to say it.
2006-11-24 17:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, Boys love a girl that is her self, doesnt act like she is desperate to find a boy friend. Just smile alot, (guys love smiles) and dress as femine and beautiful as you, probley are doing. Try not to be to slutty though, give those guys out there an eye full, yet have secrets still to your body and spirit, they will be just dying to find out. Too much flirting can cause lots of guys to just want to get away from you. So be funny in your own way, just be YOUR SELF, and guys will want to know more about you.
Most of we girlz are average in beauty and body. We may not be that Gorgeous hotty Blonde or Celebrity, but our natural beauty can satisfy the guy thats looking for a girl he can love, Not being worried about how this girl has to look perfect everyday in order to be happy, or suck him of his money.
Ive learned and achieved a boyfriend and now a loving strong marriage, because I learned to be patient with myself when around guys. Now I have the Best Boy friend-husband in the world!
Try this, I know it may take some patience but you will be truly happy in the long run. Good luck!
2006-11-24 17:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Such A Chicka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, Im not going to tell you to dress like the other girls, not if that's not you. Be confident, have good people skills, sence of humor, and good for you holding out, and saying no because you just werent feeling it. Thats why so many girls get bf's cause they just never say no. Looks are not everything, and would you want to be with someone who thought that way. But if you feel like you want to improve your appearance, do it for you, and maybe get a makeover, one that's in true keeping with your authentic self and you'll probablly feel like a million bucks bf or no bf, it wont matter.The right one will come along when you least expect it, you'll see... good luck...
2006-11-24 16:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to give it a little bit more time. if you want a bf, and one that will stick with you then don't just settle for somebody who wants to go on a date. the best kind of boys are the ones that love you for what and who you are. and i'm sure that its not because you are not beautiful because as you know some of your friends say you are. believe in yourself and that right somebody will come easily. good luck.
2006-11-24 16:53:14 · answer #6 · answered by ilessthanthreeit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound corny but I think that God has made someone for all of us who is going to appreciate everything about us. Atleast that's what I believe and my friends ask me all the time how am I going to know its him, well I have a feeling that God will send some kind of clue. So just wait and whatever you do don't try to change yourself.
2006-11-24 16:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by xoveexo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, you can stop feeling bad about yourself. Secondly, if you don't love yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? Who knows, maybe you walk around looking as sad as you feel and guys often like girls who look confident and feel that way too. Stop looking for guys and let them find you. It's the best advice i've heard of so far and hell, it works.
2006-11-24 16:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Pea Nis Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also think you should give your friends a chance. You know they say the best relationships start off as friendships.
2006-11-24 16:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give ur friends a chance cause maybe theyre the ones uve been waiting for all ur life
2006-11-24 16:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋