Hi, i have a friend who is always starting arguments with people for no reason (but maybe it is because she is bored) and it is really upsetting. recently she fell out with my other friend and wouldnt sit at th same table as her, bitched about her calling her fat and stuff, and making me choose. i am really starting to dislike her but if i did break friends with her that would leave me with quite a few less friends as i am not very popular. do u think i should ditch her or keeep her?
x emily x
2006-11-24 09:05:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you are not comfortable with the actions of this person, then follow your heart and do what it tells you. I think that it is sad that people feel they have to put up with bad behavior or otherwise risk being alienated from others. The world does have nice people in it you just have to look for them and you are unlikely to attract them if you are hanging around someone who is negative and argumentative.
2006-11-24 09:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say get all of your friends together and FIGURE OUT a way to work things out. Tell your one friend that you think she is a little B itchy! If you all are between the ages of 12-15... she might just be PMSing. I know when I PMS, its very difficult to maintain a positive attitude towards people Im very close to... read my last question! But, most times I try very hard to be positive, and friends should look out for eachother and really try hard to be there for the other person. Maybe some tough things are going on in your friends life and she is lashing out. But you girls all need to sit down and figure this out. To answer your question tho, I think you should DEF keep her!
2006-11-24 17:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have put YOURSELF in a bad postion. You chose to take sides with a nasty person who was obviously wrong and being mean to another person. THAT is why you will have a lot less friends when you break friends with this meanie. You should cut her lose to show her that she has no right to treat people that way and you should make it a point to tell her WHY she is losing you as a friend. You should also find the person she went off on and apologize to them.
2006-11-24 17:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by NolaD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch her unless you want to be associated with her bad reputation. If you like her as a friend then you have to deal with the consequences but I dont see why you would want to deal with that mess. You will gain friends once you ditch her cause no one likes a bit-h and others will respect you for the decision you made.
2006-11-24 17:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Love Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some one is not a good friend when he/she askes you to choose. i am known around my school as the mean *****, so you could take my advice or not. i no not being popular is a big issue these days but u gotta go for the gold and the only way you could go is getting rid of what is stopping you and what is stopping you is is your "friend". now you choose what you want to do!
2006-11-24 17:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by RAWR! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch is a harsh word,but if she is making u choose sides, that is just wrong, and if she was a true friend, she wouldn't call your other friend fat! she would keep it to herself. and as for new friends, just start conversations with people. find what you have in common. you will make new ones.
2006-11-24 17:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by wildfire224 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are not happy with her then maybe u should break friends. just because u are not her friend anymore doesnt mean that the other ppl will stop being your friend too. hope the best for you in what ever u do
2006-11-24 17:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a very bitchy person.But if she's really your friend you shouldnt have to choose.Because friends come and go.And at the end you will notice that YOU made a mistake if you do choose.... so tell your friend that IF SHE'S YOUR TRUE FRIEND YOU WOULDNT HAVE TO CHOOSE
2006-11-24 17:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch.
2006-11-24 17:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would u be hangin around someone like that try 2 become a lil sociable and meet new people join some clubs or athletics!!!
and i mean is she a liked person?????? if u hangina round her then that wou;ld make you a non liked person too beacuse your with her!!
2006-11-24 17:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by ever_aj_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋