Please read my story, I really need some advice. How do I get over him?

Question

We started going out about Semtember, and everything was great! i mean he was funny, charming, hott, he was like a prince charming! The only thing i wanted 2 tell him was how much i loved him, but it had been 2 monthes and i was scared to say it because i didnt know how he would react to it, so i didnt. Well last week i went over 2 his house and we watched scary movies and had a great time, but the next day he told me, i just see you as a friend. Its was so shocking that i couldnt even look at him. He also told me that i was his best girlfriend, like a friend that is a girl, and that he didnt want a realationship to ruion it. He called me a couple of days later and asked if he could talk 2 me about somthing, so i said yes, and he told me that hes always loved my best friend aime. He told me about how she was pretty, smart, and how much he loved her. After i got off the phone i sat down and cried for hours, thinkin about how much i wanted 2 hear him say that. I no i should move but how?

Answer 1

that's tough. i know it may seem hard now but life must go on and it'll get better as time passes, trust me. the only thing you can do is to ultimately realize that if you really love him then you'd want him to be happy no matter who he's with. it's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. don't worry, guys are like freeway exits, even if you miss the one you wanted, there's always more right down the road. good luck.

Answer 2

i know how painful this must be on u, but don't cry over him OK. i don't think u should stay friend with him because of how u feel about him. in order for u to get over him is to isolate yourself from. cause every time u see him talking to ur best it would be as if someone just stab u in ur back. just stay away and try to find someone else. sorry to hear that. take care