I don't get along with girls very much and infact I find them to be pretty boring company. All my friends have always been guys and I'm always just "one of the guys" y'know? That's how I roll, I'm chill and laid back. My problem is that they all always f*cking fall for me. Ugh. I can't keep a friend worth damn when they're all getting upset that I don't want to be with them.
People say "Stop hanging out with guys then, that will solve it", but then I would have no one to hangout with to have fun. I need friends just like everyone else.
I can't be friends with gay guys either if you're thinking of suggesting that. They behave in a way that makes me want to be far far far away from them. (From my experiences).
Help me !!! I'm tired of being the bad guy who has to say "I don't like you like that" lol.
2006-11-24 08:57:06 · 4 answers · asked by Juniper84 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, it's not because I like being sucked up to. These aren't "friends", they are real friends and they don't start off liking me like that. I don't hangout with women or gay men because I tend to have nothing in common with them.
2006-11-24 09:03:30 · update #1
Oh my God, all of your advice is very good for maybe a different situation but not mine.
I should have explained something or other differently, you all have the wrong impression.
I'm not like the girl you people seem to think I am. I love myself, I love my friends, and I actually hate the "attention", it disgusts me, that's why I asked this question in the first place.
All I want to know is: Is there a way to be upfront with a new friend without sounding conceited so that they know there will not be an opportunity for romance???????
2006-11-24 09:16:19 · update #2
Most male-female friendships are bogus. Not all, but most. Is it possible you don't like female friends (or gay men) because you are used to being surrounded by 'friends' who suck up to you in the hopes of one day getting some action? Just something to consider.
BTW: they don't 'fall' for you. They always wanted you, they just didn't have the guts to make a move earlier.
2006-11-24 09:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You find all females to be "pretty boring company"? hmmmm Truthfully, I think you are starving for the attention that the guys give you and you'd be lost if they didn't show you the interest that you're used to.
I think I'd work on my own self worth in order to cultivate some female relationships in a healthy way. You will be surprised at how much you need them at times.
Don't forget.. if you have a problem with EVERYONE in a group there is only one common denominator.
2006-11-24 17:06:44 · answer #2 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh huh that's too bad because girls find you and your problems boring too. Okay seriously, you do need girlfriends to get along in life and with a little attitude adjustment I'm sure there are some you could learn to tolerate.
2006-11-24 17:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem..I am married and my whole entire life men just flock to me and want me...what is a girl to do...?
2006-11-24 17:21:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋