Family & Relationships - 23 November 2006

I like a girl [but don't love] as much as i try to get away from her. My destiny brings me closer to her. But when i am closer to her i don't even see to her [avoid her] [shy] and when she is far from me i always remember her more than myself? WHAT IS THIS SITUATION? PLEASE HELP ME?

2006-11-23 05:29:09 · 23 answers · asked by DJ LOVER 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help gettin my boyfriend sumthin i really dont know wat he 15 im 13 wat do u give a 15yr boy.

2006-11-23 05:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by BabyGurl 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems for some reason...on such a great day...people end up getting into an argument for some reason or another...we fought because we couldn't get the time right...trivial as it is,...but finally got it together...lmao...how bout you?

2006-11-23 05:28:44 · 13 answers · asked by MotherKittyKat 7 in Friends

signs that a boy likes you?

2006-11-23 05:27:16 · 15 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

??

2006-11-23 05:26:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy came along and my friend introduced me one night to him and i fell in love at first sight. I wanted to be with him eversince but worse is HE IS MY FRIEND'S BF. I know im wrong and i tried hard to keep my feelings but still it showed. We spent times together, stole moments with each other and altho I felt guilty i pursued for my love because i felt i loved him more since my friend is cheating on him. I felt so deeply in love with this guy and he said he loved me back but then he's still with my friend and i dont want him before to have him choose between us because in the first place im wrong there and i dont wanna be more selfish. So I let him go, and yes my friend did found out but were okay now and i sacrificed my love even tho it was my first real love and its been five months already and i still love him. Someone pls tell me how to forget him coz the pain is still here and now im so afraid to fall again and i feel that i'll never ever love again :(

2006-11-23 05:25:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

students at my school are acusing me of being homosexual, ia swear iam not! i ttally like girls, anyway this thing is bugging what should i do?

2006-11-23 05:24:17 · 17 answers · asked by garnessilva 1 in Friends

My freinds always say that you shoundt be flirting why in a reletionship is that true?!!?!?

2006-11-23 05:22:10 · 20 answers · asked by HeRe i Stand 1 in Singles & Dating

So i am not getting married but to all the engaged people answer this question and i want to see how many creative ideas i can get in 3 days. Plan out the whole wedding and answer my question. Thank you

2006-11-23 05:20:42 · 32 answers · asked by jigglet92 2 in Weddings

do you think that you orgasim sort of evolves???

2006-11-23 05:20:41 · 16 answers · asked by Julie! 2 in Singles & Dating

He has always been a night person, and clubs, from a teen. He's 35 yrs old now. We've always also had the argument about how late is late. I'm just concerned because I don't want our kids to think staying out till the morning is normal, every week. I tell him that this isn't good for the kids to see, but he says it's only every week or so.

2006-11-23 05:18:56 · 30 answers · asked by Deb B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

kiss a girl??? there u see her sitting ther across the way he dont got a lot to say but ther's sumthin about her and u dont know why but ur dyin to try u wantna kiss the girl.

2006-11-23 05:18:48 · 17 answers · asked by LIL B 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend broke up wit me 6 weeks ago cus she thinks i dont trust her,and she said that was the only reason. When we broke up i had just found out my mum mite have cancer again and ive been having major health problems myself. I couldn't deal wit the pressure so i snapped at her and accused her of having feelings 4 sum1else, so now she is adamant shes better without me even thow she still loves me. I love her more than anything and need her at this difficult time in my life, wat do i do???? How do i prove 2 her that i did trust her???

2006-11-23 05:17:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend lives in Montana, where im from, and is over seas, a year ago i moved to South Carolina.

Recently he sent me an email that floored me:

"im really happy your having a baby and are engaged, but im also saddend, because i was really hoping that i could get you back home, and maybe work something out with you, ive always loved you, but since we both always seemed to be in a relationship i never thought it would work, and now i know it wont. Just know that i will be there for you, and that i do love you"


after he sent that email, he really hasnt talked to me, the thing is, i love him to death, and couldnt imagine my life without him, and since i got the email, all feelings have changed for my fiance, i knew i wasnt ready to get married, im only 18, and all i wanted to do was go home, so this situation really sucks.

i know im having a baby, and right around the time im having my baby, he will be coming back to the states....

what should i do???

2006-11-23 05:15:26 · 14 answers · asked by ruspecialenuf 3 in Friends

For examply, will they usually only get in a relationship with you because all they are looking for is sex? and do they really think about it ALL the time? Is it even possible for a guy to stay faithful for a long amount of time?

2006-11-23 05:15:06 · 42 answers · asked by Kylie 1 in Singles & Dating

Namely, my brother-in-law... he's an emotionally abusive, self-centered sociopath. Puts on a good front when he's around other people - but it's a different story when he's alone with my sister-in-law. My husband and I are tired of enabling his behavior and tired of enabling my sister-in-law's enabling... we do NOT want to cause a seen or create more tension today. What is the best way to make it through this uncomfortable situation today?

2006-11-23 05:14:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-23 05:14:22 · 6 answers · asked by Love M 1 in Singles & Dating

If u tell tell ur close female friend that you need a break from her and she DISAGREED\WAS RUDE TOWARDS ME as a result---does it mean anything???

I said this after she said we wudn't go further than friends as she didn't want to risk losing our friendship.(we r attracted to each other-is confirmed).

Still want to remain friends

My reason was that she was behaving odd towards me and I thought it best we have some time apart.Especially for me to get over my feelings.

have told her time apart might be needed by me to deal with my feelings,especially with her behaving odd.

Have said I value our friendship and I mean that.

Advice?

2006-11-23 05:13:50 · 14 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

I'll be always thinking of a person, when I see him I feel totally blessed, I want to be with him every second.
Is this LOVE??? and if yes how???

2006-11-23 05:12:53 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-23 05:12:31 · 13 answers · asked by skin 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing and sleeping with an older guy, the situation between us is extrememly complicated as he used to go out with my mum so obviously he is very paranoid that it will get out so I understand he needs some space.
But yesterday I had just been to the hospotal and he told me to text him when I got out and then he would ring me, so I did.
he rang me and said he wouldn't be very good company as he is down at the moment, so i said "is that a no to my proposal?" (as i'd asked if he wanted to meet me) and he said no it wasn't but he was just a little 'prickly round he edges' so i think he wants to let things lie for a while, which is ok i suppose. Then he said "i have the kids tonight until sunday" which i thought was a lie but i let it drop.
Then when he rang me later he said "if for some reason or the other the kids don't end up coming tomorrow i'll give you a call"
To me, that sounds like he doesnt have the kids and he'd call me if he felt like seeing/sleeping with me - yes?

2006-11-23 05:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be tempted to shag the one you wasn't dating.

2006-11-23 05:12:21 · 9 answers · asked by Bone Storm 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this guys at the gym that I always check out. He's really good looking. Obviously he noticed me and before he left the gym he wrote down his number on a piece of paper and gave it to me without saying anything. So, after waiting a week, I called him even though my dad told me not to. He said that I made a mistake by calling him because I shouldn't be the one to make the first move. I saw the guy yesterday and he was cool, we worked out together and talked and now he wants to take me out. So my question is, Did I make a mistake? Should I back off now ? How should I act?

2006-11-23 05:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by ozo2004 2 in Singles & Dating

IAt first we got to know each other by talking, dating and spending lots of time on the phone and in her car. We talked about our inner thoughts and what we expected in the future individually. When we first kissed she cried, when I first touched her skin and other body parts she cried and when we made love she cried. She had been divorced for three years and has two daughters. When we spent time togther in her car, we would spend hours talking and holding each other. We developed our certain quirks like giving eskimo kisses, rocking back and forth. I would use my hand to draw hearts on her body and tell her that I loved her. There's a twist. Her boss was my friend and she started to like me. My x gal told me to stop talking to her, but her boss was my friend. I was in a catch twenty two. I tried to keep a balance between them, but eventually it went south. My x gal started to be distant because there were things that her boss said about me. My x gal wanted to end it. Why

2006-11-23 05:09:54 · 2 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating

work at a grill and and several guys I work with are always calling me "chiquita, mamacita, bonita" etc. Being a sweet and charming gentleman is all fine by me, but what gets me is they are in relationships/married and they behave this way. Saying how they love me "te amo" and they are very touchy feely and say stuff to eachother in Spanish and then say my name so I know they are saying stuff about me, but I don't know what. They will call me sancha (mistress), amante (or amamante??)-is that lover? And I say "mentiroso!" and they will grab my sides, rub my back, etc. I tell them to stop and push them away yet they continue. I already have another job lined up and am quitting this week. They tell me they are just playing It bothers me a lot because they are indeed in relationships and I don't know why they act this way! Anyone else have any similar experiences?

2006-11-23 05:09:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i thinkt this is a gd quetions that neeeds ansering!! Plssss

2006-11-23 05:08:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend has his own place and I still live with my parents. He is always doing nice things, like cooking me meals or taking me out. What could I do that is really romantic for him. p.s I'm not a good cook

2006-11-23 05:08:53 · 4 answers · asked by laura h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I work alot i am in the medical field.I work 3rd and wok alot of hours is this good for my kids?my husband works first...

2006-11-23 05:08:36 · 12 answers · asked by shanky36 3 in Family

Maybe once or twice a year in an argument, he will bruise my arm, or throw something at me. Last time I was in the shower and he kept 'snapping' me with a wet tube sock.
In the heat of it I think "I cant do it anymore" but then I remember how sweet he is and how hed do anything for me.
Guys always beat my mom , but bad, and she could never talk to them about anything or they would get mad, she'd have to walk on eggshells around them. But my relationship is not like that.
Should I leave?

2006-11-23 05:08:23 · 31 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when the man can really talk a good game how can you tell? what should i look for in a conversation with him. what actions show? ect...

2006-11-23 05:07:24 · 14 answers · asked by wanted 1 in Singles & Dating