I like a girl [but don't love] as much as i try to get away from her. My destiny brings me closer to her. But when i am closer to her i don't even see to her [avoid her] [shy] and when she is far from me i always remember her more than myself? WHAT IS THIS SITUATION? PLEASE HELP ME?
2006-11-23 05:29:09 · 23 answers · asked by DJ LOVER 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
off course you love ger..and too much..get off her..tell her..enjoy with her.good luck.
2006-11-23 10:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by simanto 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's called infatuation. Not love. Love is when you know the person, and that you are certain of their feelings for you. If you have to ask, it's not love. Love is certain, like how certain you are about what your own first name is.
Infatuation is when your body produces chemicals like crazy and you get a "rush" when you are around a certain person. These chemicals (dopamine, norepenepherine, endorphins, etc) cause you to feel a strong attraction to a person, and many people confuse the feeling with love.
This chemical over-production is usually good for about 36 months, and subsides, giving way to new chemicals that promote a long-term sense of comfort and acceptance. This is the reason that some people break up, get divorced, cheat, or become **** addicts. It is also the reason why players and serial daters do not stay in long-term relationships.
Your "destiny" is your choice. It is what you make of it. If you are trying to get away from this girl, I assume it is because she does not want you around. But since you can't seem to get over her, I assume that you are addicted to the "rush".
You should respect her feelings and stay away from her. You will feel the "rush" with others if you give yourself a chance. Hopefully you'll feel it with someone who feels it, too.
Know that love is mutual and complete trust, respect, and acceptance. It never causes one to question, wonder, or worry about their partner's feelings or intentions. It is certain.
If you're in doubt, you can live without.
2006-11-23 13:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You lucky man,start giving her more time you will know yourself.Maybe you do love her but it is equally important that she loves you too.If destiny's on your side,who knows you may have found the one made for you.Don't shy away from her try to put your feelings in words,express it to her,give her the due space & wait for what the lady says.Don't hasten things,go slow but steady.
Good Luck....Many sleepless nights ahead
2006-11-23 14:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what I think, infatuation, attraction, love,... all these are one and the same. See it works like this, u see a person. She's striking. You try to develop a relationship with her. Your liking for her increases. if ur relationship fails u call it infatuation and move on, but if it succeeds, u understand her more than ever, ur liking increases and you call it love.You see it all starts with the same thing.
2006-11-23 13:35:32 · answer #4 · answered by Guess who? 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its definatley love, u love her from her heart and not from her looks. looks wise u want beautiful girl and i guess she is not thats the only reason u are avoiding her, but deep down heart u love her a lot. so its ur decision time to decide.
2006-11-27 06:48:28 · answer #5 · answered by Hidimba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what is called Love. You just put 3 questions to yourself, Why i am thinking of unknown girl? If i dont love her why i am feeling she is very nearer to me and unable to remove her from my mind?. Why i am giving that much of importance to her more than me if i dont love her?
This question will help you wether you are loving her or liking her.
2006-11-24 00:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One night relationship sort of love.Go away from her,you dont love her,it is a cent-percent case of infatuation.
2006-11-23 13:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's idiocy. That's how people behave when they like(but don't love) someone. They get all mushy mooed, gooey eyed and like(but don't love) sick.
Just go and tell her. Like that damn Nike ad says JUST DO IT.
All the best!
2006-11-23 14:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by ~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u may not love her but destiny has definately sumthing in store for you guys!!! i dont know why are you running away from her but one thing is for sure you have feelings for her......
2006-11-27 13:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Situation you narrated could be seen as silly infatuation, that's all as you yourself had told that you like her but not love her.
2006-11-23 22:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take this quiz to really judge whether u r really in love, or is it Just a Crush,....
Very effective!
2006-11-23 14:27:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋