If u tell tell ur close female friend that you need a break from her and she DISAGREED\WAS RUDE TOWARDS ME as a result---does it mean anything???
I said this after she said we wudn't go further than friends as she didn't want to risk losing our friendship.(we r attracted to each other-is confirmed).
Still want to remain friends
My reason was that she was behaving odd towards me and I thought it best we have some time apart.Especially for me to get over my feelings.
have told her time apart might be needed by me to deal with my feelings,especially with her behaving odd.
Have said I value our friendship and I mean that.
Advice?
2006-11-23 05:13:50 · 14 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason that women act that way is because there are torn in between there "feelings & heart"!! She's IN LOVE WITH YOU!!!
And she's having a hard time couping with that, and now you told her that you want time apart she's really taking it hard!!
She really want to be with you but at the same time she don't want to wreck the friendship that you 2 have!
If you and she have very strong feelings towards each other don't be shy to make that next step!!!
2006-11-23 07:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by thinkpink4u101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-22 23:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way it seems to me is that you are trying to turn your friendship into a relationship and she turned you down, maybe because she never saw you in that way, any how you should not stop talking to her, i know you need time to recover or cop with what she told you and how she behaved, but that was just her reaction. You gotta understand women get offered alot and when you her friend tried to do the same thing she might have gotten the wrong idea. The best bet is to communicate as friends and explain eachothers reasons and feelings as to how you feel about one another and not get upset about anything. Friendship is very important and if you really apreciate hers you would respect her feelings, and vise versa.
2006-11-23 05:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ankit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Brother, you really have nothing much to worry about. From the way you have explained, you are the one behaving in an adult and matured way while your friend, if I can call her that does not really know what she wants.
Best you let things be the way you have said and move on with your life as she isn't ready to move along with you. Ther exist those who would like you for you and would want to give a relationship a go.
The sooner you let go of one who wouldn't want to give you the satisfaction of a full throttle relationship, the earlier you will find that one who would love you for you. All the best in your search for emotional satisfaction...
2006-11-23 05:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by leero a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
face it two people of the opposite sex spending too much time together might lead to alot of things if not carefull. u are right u really need a break from each other. even lovers need space at times. just try to xplain nicely to her. make sure u dont lead each other into temptations that later u might regret. avoid heart breaks too. am sure u can handle it.
2006-11-23 05:42:50 · answer #5 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants more from you than you are giving (not talking about sex either) and she doesn't want time apart from you. When are you men going to wake up and realise that we women know just where you're coming from. You are using mardy **** emotional blackmail just so that you can get into her knickers aren't you. Why don't you stop playing games with her life. She deserves better than you.
2006-11-23 06:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Sandee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman and I can't work out how I feel at the best of times!! Best to let her come round on her own - things will work out in time or I am the Queen Mother. good luck - take it easy
2006-11-23 05:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get together!!!! it is impossible to stay friends when u are attracted to each other... what happens if u get a girlfriend??? will she still be ur best buddy... i dont think sooooo!!!!
take the chance with each other... if it dont work it dont work, for after all it wont work out as friends when u start dating other people.... good luck
2006-11-23 05:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by thenickistar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i thinks she wants more but is afraid in someway.
i think she may want you to fight for her- to show her you care but dont you think its funny that she got funny with you when you said you didnt want to see her???
come on - go round and see her, bet shes waiting eagerly by the phone waiting to hear from you.
reiterate the fact you want to be friends but would like more as you find her v attractive
good luck!
2006-11-23 05:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well mate altho yes time can heal it also can drive apart........ i think that maybe she doesnt understand why or how you like her.......... its down to her not you....... she will come running if you let her........... sometimes girls do say no just to test you....and as your giveing up she may see that as rejection.........try to talk to her again and ask what she feels........but do not get heavy with her or your lose her...all the best mate
2006-11-23 05:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by james t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋