girls only. Relationship. I went out with my x gal for about six months.?

Question

IAt first we got to know each other by talking, dating and spending lots of time on the phone and in her car. We talked about our inner thoughts and what we expected in the future individually. When we first kissed she cried, when I first touched her skin and other body parts she cried and when we made love she cried. She had been divorced for three years and has two daughters. When we spent time togther in her car, we would spend hours talking and holding each other. We developed our certain quirks like giving eskimo kisses, rocking back and forth. I would use my hand to draw hearts on her body and tell her that I loved her. There's a twist. Her boss was my friend and she started to like me. My x gal told me to stop talking to her, but her boss was my friend. I was in a catch twenty two. I tried to keep a balance between them, but eventually it went south. My x gal started to be distant because there were things that her boss said about me. My x gal wanted to end it. Why

Answer 1

Duh. She she was aware of your confused loyaty. She didn't want to have to contend with your lack of loyalty to her.

She tried to clue you in on her boss's lack of integrity (badmouthing you) but you were too interested in another woman's attention. Nothing is more insulting to a woman than acting like she is not enough for you, and that you need other woman to supplement the relationship.

Your lack of integrity also put her in an awkward position at work, straining the boss-subordinate relationship they had. Any man with her interest in mind would NOT do that to his woman.

You need to grow up and realize that in a relationsip, it's not all about you. It's about your willingness to be a partner. She ended it because she realized that she can do better than you. Deal with it, learn from it, and move on, and don't do it again.

Answer 2

Because how are you going to tell her to stop talking to the girl when you were talking to her you should have cut the ties between you and the boss that's probably why she wants to end the relationship. She thinks you may wanna cheat.Or the boss threatened her..