I've been seeing and sleeping with an older guy, the situation between us is extrememly complicated as he used to go out with my mum so obviously he is very paranoid that it will get out so I understand he needs some space.
But yesterday I had just been to the hospotal and he told me to text him when I got out and then he would ring me, so I did.
he rang me and said he wouldn't be very good company as he is down at the moment, so i said "is that a no to my proposal?" (as i'd asked if he wanted to meet me) and he said no it wasn't but he was just a little 'prickly round he edges' so i think he wants to let things lie for a while, which is ok i suppose. Then he said "i have the kids tonight until sunday" which i thought was a lie but i let it drop.
Then when he rang me later he said "if for some reason or the other the kids don't end up coming tomorrow i'll give you a call"
To me, that sounds like he doesnt have the kids and he'd call me if he felt like seeing/sleeping with me - yes?
2006-11-23 05:12:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might want to really consider a relationship with this person. That he dated your mother, previously, and now that you are dating him, makes for situation in which he has to operate with some deception. I wouldn't worry if he was straightforward with you but given that you suspect he lied to you and you haven't discussed this with him, you're relationship might be in trouble. If you aren't able to communicate to him freely and he with you, then you will need to reconsider your relationship. Is he lying to you? Most likely he is, but you have to ask him yourself. Consider the state of your communications in your relationship and consider his answer to your suspicions. It will tell. If he comes clean then its ok. If not, then you might want to consider other options before getting more involved. Good luck, cheers!
2006-11-23 05:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Drockable 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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If your so proud of this relationship and you believe that it has a future.... go tell your mom about it right now....
Not Going To Do It Are You ??
That's because you know it's wrong. Eventually, your mom WILL find out. The more meetings you have... the chances are higher she will catch you.
How would you feel if you found out that your Mom was having sex with one of your old Boy friends... what your doing is no different.
How do you think she is going to feel when she finds out... how do you think Christmas dinner will be when your entire family knows about this ??
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2006-11-23 13:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Corvette Red Racer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's hiding something and he's a dirty perv. he's only there to turn your honey dripping flower into a dna dumpster. He's probably dating someone else and will dump you in a month or 2
2006-11-23 13:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you going out with a guy who went out with your mom?!
2006-11-23 13:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had to stop reading ur question after i saw that the guy dated ur mom.... thats gross
2006-11-23 13:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋