I work alot i am in the medical field.I work 3rd and wok alot of hours is this good for my kids?my husband works first...
2006-11-23 05:08:36 · 12 answers · asked by shanky36 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would say its not all that good because kids start feeling very lonely. When their mom starts working she has less time for her kids and they begin to act up so they can get thier moms attention. The best thing you can d o is find a goos time to spend with them and dont ever ignore them just cause your tired.
2006-11-23 06:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by ermosa_milagros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does third mean? It does not help to be away so much when you have kids. I think you know the answer. But unfortunately it is a balancing act between work and children. Even if your husband pitches in a lot you still need to have time together as a family. Maybe it is time to re evaluate what you are doing. Perhaps you can scale the work back or work in a different sector of medicine. If not then your children will suffer to some degree.
2006-11-23 13:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, im thirteen and i should say they will b affected- they'll slowly grow apart frum u and like they cant share alot of information with u and u probably will get in alot of fights with them- but at least go shoppin with them, cook with em, u know try to keep the family together!!! do stuff u know they will like- i hope this answers ur question!!!
2006-11-23 13:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with your kids.
My mom works alot.
Im not affected.
Im in my teen years and dont have a life.
The real Question is:
How much time do you spend with your kids when your off of work?
2006-11-23 13:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bo M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only one affected by this is YOU. You will miss out on your family, because time goes too fast and before you know it your kids are grown up and you didn't have time for them.
See the movie "CLICK" with Adam Sandler
2006-11-23 13:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, being 14 i think i would know. it does suck that my mom isnt home much. she gets home at 5, has to cook, clean, exercise, and take care of a 4 yr old. i try to help sometimes, but she still barely has time for herself, much less me and my sisters. ive grown farther from my mom because i feel like i cant talk to her. but i think it depends on how old your kids are.
2006-11-23 13:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as they have a stable home and parents are able to spend quality time with them, then they should be alright.
2006-11-23 13:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old the kids are ......and also I think as long as they feel your love and care its all good ;)
2006-11-23 13:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on where and how much they work. If you have a nanny for them everyday that they knowbtter than you do, probably so.
2006-11-23 13:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by XOXOXuXnoXuXloveXmeXOXOX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there isn't much family time, im guessin your kids will start ot miss you alot, and get mad at you for 'not caring'
2006-11-23 13:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋